Red flag

By Nicky - 15/05/2024 09:00 - United States

Today, we realized we had a problem with two appliances. Their manuals were in a high cabinet. My husband got down the one for the appliance he was working on, but left the one I needed up too high for me to reach. I got the step stool and said, "OK" as I climbed up. My husband flipped and yelled that I am "disrespectful." FML
I agree, your life sucks 459
You deserved it 88

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d j mom 8

so he wasn't being disrespectful himself?! if this happens often, I would be reevaluating my relationship

Make a plan to leave as safely and discreetly as possible. I'm so sorry he's such a POS.

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Make a plan to leave as safely and discreetly as possible. I'm so sorry he's such a POS.

d j mom 8

so he wasn't being disrespectful himself?! if this happens often, I would be reevaluating my relationship

Georgina 3

Communicate. Did you ask if he could grab your manual too? he could've absent-mindedly grabbed his because that's the one he was focused on. Just communicate instead of passive aggressive bs.

It's disrespectful to do shit for yourself? Disrespectful to make a remark when someone does something like that? You should probably check his behaviour with an abuse advice line. If it's a one off then it's just a bad day. If you find yourself talking and being understood then it's time to seriously rethink your situation.

Wadlaen 23

To me it seems like you're self-reliant and able to sort out things on your own. It also seems like your husband is in the need for a serious talk. Best of luck!