Today, my mother passed away in the hospital. My sister and brother refused to tell me which hospital she was staying at so I couldn’t say goodbye. They blocked my number. This was all because apparently I was the favorite and they did this as a vendetta against me. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my sister told me our mother had died… via email. I didn't see it for nearly 12 hours. She has my phone number. FML
Today, we recently had to unplug our mom from life support. We decided it together as a family, but as her medical proxy, I was the one who had to tell the hospital to do it. Now half my family members don’t talk to me, like I decided all on my own to kill her behind their backs. I want my mom back. FML
Today, my sister is a murderer but my family admitted they prefer her over me. I had to move to a new city to get away from the media and drama, I have no friends, and the only family who calls me is my sister. FML
Today, I found out that the reason my ex-fiance didn't visit me in the hospital after my accident, which I dumped him for, was because the hospital wouldn't let him in because he wasn't family. He's blocked my number, returned the ring and everything. FML
Today, my mom told me that I will never see my siblings again because I refused to attend her wedding to another woman. FML
Today, six years after I gave up my newborn to my sister to raise, I finally told him I’m his real mom. In response, my sister took out a restraining order against me and blocked all forms of contact. The entire family has sided with her. FML
Today, I found out why my sister hasn't been answering my texts or phone calls. Her husband blocked my number on her phone. FML
Today, my mom blocked me on everything, kicked me out of her house, and declared that I'm "dead to her." Why? She ordered a package, but it never came. I’m still trying to process how that could possibly be my fault. FML
Today, my estranged father died. No one bothered to tell me, and the only reason I found out was because his wife texted my sister. When I asked about the service, I was told I was not welcome in the state he had lived in, because I was no longer family. FML
Today, in front of all my family, my grandmother said it was so funny how my brother was my mother’s favorite, while my sister was my father’s favorite. When I asked whose favorite I was, there was silence. From everyone. Including my parents. Guess I know where I’m not wanted now. FML
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Top comments
namine120409 42
Your siblings are disgusting. Sorry for your loss.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
Pretty understandable why you were the favourite compared to them.
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namine120409 42
Your siblings are disgusting. Sorry for your loss.
yahok 3
That is disgusting, I hope you cut them out of your life.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
Pretty understandable why you were the favourite compared to them.
mike3775 39
If my sister did that to me, no more contact from me. So sorry you have asshats for siblings
coolrunnings1021 14
Hope she left you everything in her Will!!
YoLepp 1
OMG, I’m so sorry. They didn’t just let you down by not getting to see her but your poor mom as well. Shame on them. I’m sorry for your loss.
ItsGoneForever 16
Risking some downvotes, but it's beyond me that you don't know in which hospital your mother is. Haven't you received a call from a nurse or doctor? Have you never visited her in the weeks prior to her passing away? Have you never accompanied her to treatments or other appointments with her doctor? Ofcourse, you don't deserve to not have the opportunity to not say goodbye to your mother and I feel very sorry for your loss. But I feel like this situation was avoidable and and your siblings don't play such a massive role in this, even though they really act shameless... FYL altogether though and sorry for your loss.
WhataStrangeTripThisIs 24
All depends on if it happened suddenly or not. If either of my parents died right now, I would have no immediate way to find out the hospital- other than from my family members...
Grumpy Jack 27
Apparently, THEY "refused". Seems clear enough to me. I'm sorry for tour loss, OP. Hope you get a chance to be at her funerals. By the way, don't you have any other relatives or common friends with your mom that can support you ? People like that would be kicked out of my life, right away ! And I'm pretty sure I wouldn't let them be at the ceremony.
rudico67 8
I'm sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry you have to deal with your siblings.
FakeFriendMagnet 1
Your siblings sound horrible. I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm even more sorry that's how they treated you. I hope you cut them out of your life.
mccuish 25
There’s a nicely burnt down bridge between siblings. I hope you have the numbers permanently blocked