Today, I've been married for six months, my husband and I are in our early twenties, and not only does he have absolutely no interest in any kind of sexual act with me, he actually becomes angry and irritated when I try to come on to him. FML
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Today, marks the sixth month in a row my husband of two years refuses to have sex with me. I've shaved everything, I lost weight to try to be more shapely, I do more chores, work, and go to school. I can't even get him erect with a BJ. I don't know what else to do. FML
Today, my husband told me he doesn't see me in a sexual light. Too bad we've only been married for 3 months. FML
Today, and every day for the past five months since I got married, whenever my husband and I try to have sex, I think of it as "wifely duties" and it turns me off so much. I can't stop, and we haven't had sex once. My husband is frustrated and angry, and keeps commenting that he should have known this would happen. FML
Today, I tried to talk to my soon-to-be-husband about how he needs to take a more active approach in his own life. It devolved to him screaming at me and putting words in my mouth. This has been going on for six months. FML
Today, it has officially been two and half months since I've had sex. I've done everything imaginable to entice him, but my boyfriend doesn't seem bothered at all. FML
Today, after seven years of marriage to a guy almost four years younger then me, he looks and acts like an old fart. He would rather watch TV than have intimacy with me. He can't even last longer than two minutes when we have sex, which ends up always leaving me frustrated and unsatisfied. FML
Today, my husband threw an anger fit and left home after a fight. I only said that maybe he's not that interested in sex after marriage. Why? In the 5 years of our marriage, he has initiated sex exactly 0 times, while during courtship it was numerous times during the day. FML
Today, after 5 years of marriage, my once-gym-mad husband is now so unfit that even standard missionary sex makes him so breathless and light headed, he has to stop in case he passes out. He hasn’t given me an orgasm in over a year and yet he insists nothing's wrong with him, and that I’m just being mean. FML
Today, I talked to my husband about his lack of interest in sex. Apparently his definition is polar to mine; his is along the lines of cuddling. Not only did I wait until marriage to have sex with this man, apparently he prefers a permanent roommate without benefits. FML
Today, it's been 10 months of a sexless marriage. Also my 10-month wedding anniversary. We waited until marriage, and she hasn't wanted me since. FML
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Charlie Given 26
that's some serious red flags either your husband is cheating ,has a different sexual orientation and is using the marriage as a front to his family or you might even be being gafted. time for a serious talk and if that doesn't solve the issues then it's time for a lawyer and a divorce. good luck OP don't put up with that kind of shit not to mention this is also a manipulation tactic for abusive people
Chazzster 29
The most likely explanation is that husband is gay and you are his disguise to hide that. By the way, never marry someone if you have not had sex with them. Sexual intimacy is a basic human need for most people. If you marry someone without having had sex with them, how are you to know you are compatible in this respect.
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Comments (20)
tounces7 27
Pretty obvious a divorce is the only outcome here, you need to tell him he should leave and go find the man of his dreams.
JFI_Act 12
Get out. He’s not going to change.
Chux Cimorelli_146005922 2
He is Gay!
Babygirlbutterfly86 4
.D.I.V.O.R.C.E. His sorry ass ! If it’s like this early on it will continue to get worse. Congratulations it sounds like you’ve married a narcissist!
Shamal Chandra 7
He's probably gay or Bisexual but he isn't sure yet so he's chillin in the closet...
black_dragonfly13 6
Were y’all abstaining from sex until marriage, or is this a new thing that’s begun since the marriage? If the former, why would you still marry him? If the latter, I suggest marriage counseling. Hopefully this is something that can be worked through.