Today, I found out that my partner of 18 years has officially decided that our physical relationship is over. We hadn’t been intimate since my youngest was conceived 5 years ago. I had always held out hope that it would come again, but now I have been told it’s over and I’m at a loss at what to do. I still love her. FML
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Last call, bad decisions and 3 a.m. texts you'll regret until noon. Cheers.
Today, I love my partner but also have negative thoughts as well. She stopped being interested in me about 6 months into our relationship. We have been together for 12 years. We have made love on 3 different occasions in the last 4 years. FML
Today, I was finally forced to accept that after an almost 16 year relationship and 14 year marriage, it's pretty much over. After begging and pleading with her for the last few years to show any love and affection, she still refuses entirely. I'm only here for the kids now. FML
Today, my husband told me that he could not love me without sex. My love for him is utterly unconditional. My heart is just broken now. FML
Today, my girlfriend, who I've been living with for the last month, told me she's not attracted to me and wants to see other people. She told me this after months of dating and telling me she was thinking about having a child with me. FML
Today, I found out my significant other of 14 years roughly has been with another guy for over a year and they’ve taken it all the way, if you know what I mean. While living with me. I’d watch our 4 kids so she "could go out to the movies with a girlfriend" of hers. I definitely got fucked on that one, not sure what to do now. FML
Today, the love of my life, who I’ve finally been able to date after so long, broke up with me. I met her parents for the first time and they don’t approve of me dating her due to our age gap. She’s 18 and I’m 36. Apparently they don’t understand that she’s a consenting adult and can make her own choices. FML
Today, the love of my life told me she no longer wants to be with me. Two kids and a happy life thrown away. Today I realised that nothing is forever. FML
Today, my partner of 5 years broke up with me via text. We were talking about starting a family just last week. We have a foster puppy together and moved into a new house a month ago. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 4 years, who I love with every fiber in my body, just told me that he's not attracted to me. Not in any way, shape, or form. FML
Today, after nearly 4 years together, my girlfriend told me that not only does she not love me anymore, she was lying about wanting to work things out because it would be "too hard" for her to go back to financing her own life. I'm nothing more than an extra wallet. FML
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Hangryko 32
She could be perimenopausal. What you can do is be supportive and help her through it. She should see her GP and a menopause specialist. By the way, even if she gets treatment, she may not necessarily want the physical aspect of the relationship back.
Hangryko 32
Agreed. It's as if marriage or a lifelong partnership is more than just sex.
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Hangryko 32
She could be perimenopausal. What you can do is be supportive and help her through it. She should see her GP and a menopause specialist. By the way, even if she gets treatment, she may not necessarily want the physical aspect of the relationship back.
JackWood 21
It was a good run now it's time to by a case of lotion. Nothing lasts forever.
Hangryko 32
Agreed. It's as if marriage or a lifelong partnership is more than just sex.
Mad Jack 4
Get a sidechick for the physical part. Should be okay with your wife as long as it doesn't get emotional...
Hangryko 32
Look at OP downvoting me every time. If you can't be with her for her inherent value as a person and prioritizing how she can continue to satisfy your sexual needs, do her a favour and get a divorce.