Harsh and unfair

By Anonymous - 13/09/2022 12:00

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Today, my soon-to-be-ex wife aborted our baby out of sheer spite after I caught her cheating with a man. All I’ve ever wanted is to be a mom, but I'm infertile. Also, I’m writing this from work because my boss wouldn’t let me have even one day to grieve, because I wasn’t the one who was pregnant. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 891
You deserved it 428

Same thing different taste

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Sounds like you’re in the United States. That sucks! And I’m really sorry you have gone through this. You have dodged a bullet though, if she was like that now, what would she have been like with a new born? Try and rest up and take it easy.

I'm sorry for your loss. It's painful now but it's best to not have any connections to her in the future, including a child. Wait to have a baby with someone who truly loves you. Adoption and fostering are also options.

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Sounds like you’re in the United States. That sucks! And I’m really sorry you have gone through this. You have dodged a bullet though, if she was like that now, what would she have been like with a new born? Try and rest up and take it easy.

whatshername?! 39

You ever lost an unborn child? There's no way to take it easy. But with time it will be easier to live with what happened and go on with life.

tiptoppc 19

Can confirm. My wife has miscarried 3x. It’s never easy for anyone expecting or desiring to have kids. That said, I wonder if she broke a law on this

I'm sorry for your loss. It's painful now but it's best to not have any connections to her in the future, including a child. Wait to have a baby with someone who truly loves you. Adoption and fostering are also options.

as a self partnered parent sounds u dodged a bullet that would suck to be stuck with life!

Good God, that is beyond messed up. I'm pro-choice, but there are limits. For instance, aborting a baby out of spite is NOT okay. Especially if the pregnant woman was the one in the wrong. I am so sorry, OP. :( I'm glad you're getting a divorce, though. You definitely don't want that kind of toxicity in your life.