Can't win

By confused - 12/06/2020 02:06

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Today, I was told by my wife that she was moving in with her mother, because I was causing her to have panic attacks. She said she still loves me and wants to be with me, but she needs a few months to herself. I have given her her way for most of our marriage. FML
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You deserved it 309

Same thing different taste

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Need to know what it is about him that was giving her panic attacks.

nonnified 18

This is harsh, but you should probably ask for a divorce. If she isn’t lying, it’s most likely for the best that two not be together. If she is lying, you deserve better.

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being a female I kinda hate to say it.... but you needa take the reigns and not let her run all over you... a marriage should be give and take sure but not all one way... it's good that you care enough to try hard to make her happy but if she is unwilling to do likewise maybe she should stay with her mommy

Well of course she's having panic attacks. You never have an opinion about anything she spends the whole relationship trying to guess how you feel and anytime you have a bad day she has to wonder if it's because of her.