Are straight men OK?

By Unloving - 31/12/2009 21:47 - United States

Today, a man proposed to me in classic style on one knee. Unfortunately, I have been telling this man for the last two months that I don't even want to date him. He thinks I'm playing hard to get and is not giving up. FML
I agree, your life sucks 36 169
You deserved it 5 025

Same thing different taste

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That's alittle creepy. I gotta say. Sorry.

Tell him to buy you a new Lexus and then you'll think about it. If he does it, tell him you think he's insane and you just don't see yourself spending the rest of your life with an insane person (but thank him for the car). If he doesn't do it, tell him he obviously doesn't really love you. Either way, you win. There's always a positive side to every bizarre situation.

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foodfood 3

i feel bad. what kind of idiot does that??

Try being more clear with him. Why are you still talking to him after 2 months if you're not interested? Tell him you don't marry people you haven't dated yet. Ask him if he knows anything about you (like your middle name.. favorite food..) chances are he doesn't. Have you even told him you're not interested and not playing hard to get? Because some (not all) women DO play hard to get like this. Not YDI. Sadly there are too many guys (and girls) out there like this, unfortunatly :(

OP never stated that she talks to him or anything like that. Most likely he approaches her first and maybe she's too nice to be rude though in this kind of situation thats probably best course of action. Dont blame a girl for a guys actions unless youre implying guys cant think for themselves

richman000 0

You have to cut through his denial. Send him a letter of rejection without mincing words and copy the police; if you know any lawyers, ask them to do this; Nicely spoken words from you will not work. He is not rational. You would not be overreacting, just prudent and sensible. You do not have to be polite at this point and you may actually be in danger. You could also meet him in a public place and have someone or two people arrive to join you while you tell him you never want to see or speak with him again. Brief to the point and without discussion, then leave with your friends.

That sorta guy is so creepy. And chances are he knows very well that you are serious and not "just playing hard to get". Many guys make it seem like that is what they think, when in truth, they're just hoping that if they insist long enough, you'll either find it cute or fall for the act and date them anyway... (or that they'll annoy you into giving in, and then they'll have a chance.)

MzRodriquez95 0

Just say yes and call off the engagement BAMM problem fixed and if still bothers put a restraining oder on him.

Agreed. If the guy is head over heals for this girl and she says "I want to be friends" that could translate to "I'm shy and want to move slow or get to know you better first..." Tell the guy to fsck off, you have nothing in common or point out the things you don't like about him. damn!

CarterColbie 4

Quick! This is your chance to get laid!