Things like this can bring out the worst in people because they are upset. At my uncle's funeral my cousin got mad at me for crying and said "Its not like YOUR dad died!" and I wasn't upset about it because I understood that she was just upset and stuff like that spills out. All you can do is support her in a time like this while also having people who support you, since it was a major loss for you as well. I'm very sorry OP.

I came here to comment something similar to 17. Hurt and loss can make people act irrationally. It was rude of her to say, but she just lost her dad, so she was probably just focused on her own pain. It's understandable.

honestly, she was probably just upset and lashed out. probably nothing against OP, just can't deal with her feelings.

really? think it out, its my stepdad raised (my sister and) me. Would you say "my stepdad raised I?" In this circumstance, "me" would be the appropriate term.

Nice to see a happy ending when it comes to step dad's instead of all these horror stories you usually hear. Happy for you :)

I’m not sure anyone’s all that happy with the end bit..

Then you're a bitch.

Nah you a bitch. You don't even know me.

This isn't the time to be petty.

ah yes punch someone who is grieving for their father. classy. (also obviously what she said was cruel but that is no excuse for violence, especially at a funeral).

Grief isn't a contest though. Everyone is allowed to be upset.

I said what their stepsister had to say was uncalled for. Not them being upset. OBVIOUSLY everyone has the right to be grieving, but just because someone that's not related to them by blood's upset, it doesn't mean anger should be taken out on them.