You knew the risks…

By Kathie - 22/03/2024 19:00 - United States

Today, I got dumped. This man was my soulmate. His parents don’t like me cause I was his side chick while he was married. I know it was wrong, but the heart wants what it wants. Apparently his parents can’t let bygones be bygones, so now I’m single again and heartbroken. FML
I agree, your life sucks 116
You deserved it 1 449

Same thing different taste

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OP, unless your former lover/BF is unusually responsive to his parent's opinions, the decision to end the relationship was made by him and not his parents - You need to accept that... Divorce, no matter the circumstances is usually painful for everyone. Add on top of that the guilt about having a "side chick" while married is not a great way to start a new life. I think it's not that uncommon that after a divorce, that the "side chick" gets dropped... Face it, some guy that cheated on his wife with you is not likely to suddenly find good character and be loyal to you after that. You are simply seeing the consequences now rather than later.

d j mom 3

sweet lord woman. you have no morals and you really expect sympathy?

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d j mom 3

sweet lord woman. you have no morals and you really expect sympathy?

OP, unless your former lover/BF is unusually responsive to his parent's opinions, the decision to end the relationship was made by him and not his parents - You need to accept that... Divorce, no matter the circumstances is usually painful for everyone. Add on top of that the guilt about having a "side chick" while married is not a great way to start a new life. I think it's not that uncommon that after a divorce, that the "side chick" gets dropped... Face it, some guy that cheated on his wife with you is not likely to suddenly find good character and be loyal to you after that. You are simply seeing the consequences now rather than later.

I believe thw word, Homewrecker applies here. Do you agree?

"I destroyed a marriage and now I'm crying about the consequences, whaaa! Poor me! I want pity!"..... Stfu and gtfo.

@FluffythePink - To be fair, it was the man who ruined his marriage by having an affair. However, OP shares the blame knowing he was married.

SaltyBlarog 6

nah, they both ruined the marriage, he shouldn't have done it, but op could've walked away when she found out he was married and chose not to

Next time, find your soulmate while he's single. Also find some self respect.

he cheated on his *wife* you think he was faithful to you? he wasn't

I'm sure you'll find someone quickly enough. After all, you clearly have a neon sign above your legs that reads "Open 24/7".

If he's cheating on his wife, a woman he took committed vows with, with the likes of you, what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you, a woman with seemingly low morals? He dumped you nit because of his parents, but because he wanted to. Sorry OP, but you need to reevaluate yourself and your life. Good luck.

You knew you were the side chick and you continued to engage in such a relationship. YDI... and honestly, if he listens to his parents that much if he's old enough to be married, imagine how it would be for you if your relationship was an actual one with merits.