it's not you. they just wanted to hit it then quit it. telling you they want to be friends is a easy way for them to end it without telling you they used you for sex only.

Because you jump into bed with a man too quickly. To avoid this set your expectations from the start. If you want something long term, say it. If they lose interest upon you expressing what you want, then that tells you everything you need to know - they’re not the right one for you. Say what you want up front and it should separate the wheat from the chaff. Learn from this and find the guy you deserve by getting to know his integrity and making your intentions clear before hitting the sheets. good luck!

a lot of what the other comments said but also do you think you stink? you can test it by sticking your finger inside of you giving it a second to dry off and then sniffing it lol if it smells weird get on a probiotic to help with your gut health and maybe an antibiotic for bv. but if that’s not the case keep your standards high they can only keep the act up for so long. make them take you on dates and become your boyfriend before giving it up

the reason is because u dont want a good man u want the guys who only want sex feom u. im sure plenty of men are inter but u ignore and reject them. also probably because your not that attractive so they only want the easy sex and got what they want so no need to stay ary to be blunt and mean but complaining of being alone wen u reject plenty of ppl ain't a real problem u pick the guys who leave after sex that's ur choices n who u pick

it's not about timing u can make someone wait but if they don't want u they still gonna leave once they get it it's about who u pick