All I can ask is, why would you date someone for three year without actually meeting them in person? Like they could be a creep for all you know.

Skype? Facetime? I have been with my bf for a year and I haven't seen him in person. But we have talked through facetime.

Time to step up to the plate.....

Exactly... Iv been with mine for 5 months and a half on the 15th and we text talk on the phone FaceTime Skype and he sent me a picture of his ID and even did a background check and sent me results.

How can you date someone without ever meeting them in person first? Where do you even meet? Obviously not a dating site because the whole point of those is to meet someone in person. To me it seems a bit ridiculous, i mean, i might as well call my pen-pal from 3rd grade my girlfriend if that's all it takes to have one. Im not trying to say your relationship isn't legitimate I just don't understand how you can have a bf/gf without ever meeting them

I'm sorry OP. this scenario is pretty close to mine. I had been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years with my bf and went to his state to meet him. however; he hates his cats so we're still together. FYL.

#87, I met mine not physically-through a friend at the time who had met him in person and they were dating. things happened and now we're together and he blocked her etc. I never was able to meet him until recently because of my parents not being supportive and being too young to travel by myself and vice versa.

Was OP saved from sloppy seconds?

I'm with a Swedish girl I met through a group I created, we haven't met yet though we're planning on it once we have enough money to make it possible.

agreed

Yeah I agree. Usually if they choose a silly reason to end a relationship, it is likely an excuse. As someone who is currently in a long distance relationship, I must say that 3 years is a really long time to be committed, especially without seeing the person (my bf and I try to see each other every 5-6 months). After all that hard work to maintain a long distance relationship, it is strange that he would toss it away so easily. I'm sorry this happened to you OP, but at least you didn't end up with someone like him and now you can find someone better.

then again, there's some strange people who would put their pets in a higher position than the humans around them

#53 Depends. Say I got a boyfriend and he said "It's me or the horse," well, I'd be saying goodbye to him because my horse was there before he was and my horse will be there when he's gone. Pets ARE family and for someone to tell you to choose between a pet and them is honestly selfish.

Not only that, but animals have a certain intuition about people. When a normally docile animal looks at someone and gets pissed, you should take their hint that this person might not be as good as you thought.

Cats don't talk .. I don't think she'll ever find out LOOL

Maybe she looks like a dog

Cat probs thought Op was shifty looking and made his owner aware of said opinion through scratches and meows and coughing of hairballs.

I think OP should go try and talk to the cat, see what the problem is, and try to make amends. Bring some catnip and kitty treats

But what if the cat fails its next drug test?

Cats usually need some time to get used to a new person. It's quite normal for them (or any other animal for that matter) to be suspicious for some time before they warm up to someone. It's the same reason why you won't instantly hug every cashier (for example) you interact with. Because you don't know them. So either that boyfriend is incredibly dumb to not know how pets react or he needed an excuse (as many others have already said)

Yes, we get it. "Pussy" is slang for both cat and vagina. Everyone can stop making the same shitty pun now.

3 years is a long time for this dude to be committed to her without asking for the cats approval..

#14 is correct. Its not your fault I wouldn't worry about it, this guy should have discussed this with Whiskers already. Furthermore, given that he broke up with you after 3 years based on the words of Whiskers who only knew you for 30 minutes means he is probably unreliable. All that being said, I suggest that the next time you enter into a long distance long term relationship you at least get permission first from the guy's cat.