By brokenbabe - 22/06/2011 02:38 - United States

Today, I decided I was done waiting for my boyfriend to ask me to marry him, so we were cuddling in his bed and I asked him. He asked for a rain check. FML
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brokenbabe tells us more.

I am the OP. my boyfriend and i havent had sex. Thats the first thing. We've been together 3 years. He has promised we are getting married since fall 2010. He said like this summer. I did not leave him. I am just mad at him

Top comments

Next time he asks for sex ask for a raincheck, simple as that.

Not as bad as the FML a while ago about the guy who proposed at Chuck-E-Cheese.

Comments

diva_lulu 0

You selfish broad. Maybe he doesn't want to marry you/is waiting for the right moment to ask you?

MarkGoldstein 0

well, there are better times to ask.

Personally I think it would be a nice moment. wouldn't want loads of people staring at me in a restaurant or whatever

Sukismama 2

Oh yeah n I'm sorry hun, maybe he is planning to do it himself and didn't want to ruin what he had planned, that is exactly what happened to me with my fiance, keep your chin up love all will be ok

kab161 3

sorry but that's kinda what you get for being pushy and impatient. you should have just hinted around at it...not just gone in for the kill. you probably scared him away!

What is with all this passive aggressive shit?

sabrinahusic 0

82- maybe just maybe she did hint it!! Guys don't do well with hints. Anyway OP didn't say how long they have been together but if it's been years and years a ******* engagement is overdue. well....or a breakup. I've been with my bf for 3 years and we've decided to wait a little longer.

kab161 3

doubt they have been together for years if all he gave her was a "raincheck" answer though.

sabrinahusic 0

You may be right. For all we know he could think they were just friends with benefits lol

my ex asked me to mary him i told him maybe when we were older if our relationship lasted and then he broke up with me

HAHA. to the comment above me. sorry about the break up

Stroke_Her_Ace 15

Ok, first off: your tired of waiting does not say how long you've actually waited. not likely, but that could have been two weeks. secondly, if you really want to marry this person then WHEN they ask wouldn't be as important as the fact that they actually feel the same way. third, although kinda comical I can't help but agree with the previous poster, if your gonna propose, which is perfectly fine in my book, have a nice ring ready for the occasion! if your gonna take re dominant role at least read the handbook

Why are women so fixated on such an old tradition. Sure, get married, but it can't be rushed like it used to. No point in leaping to assist an already declining statistic

Fortitudine 3

Well, he must not be ready to. At least he still wants to be with you!