By brokenbabe - United States
Today, I decided I was done waiting for my boyfriend to ask me to marry him, so we were cuddling in his bed and I asked him. He asked for a rain check. FML
brokenbabe tells us more :
I am the OP. my boyfriend and i havent had sex. Thats the first thing. We've been together 3 years. He has promised we are getting married since fall 2010. He said like this summer. I did not leave him. I am just mad at him
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  wikkedphuka  |  0

wht do u look like?? did u fart? these r the things we need to know b4 calling ur boyfriend an ballsniffing hymaphrodite
if ur cute... ddnt fart and he is a ahole 4 no reason well aww poor u


she shouldn't have proposed at all...without an engagement ring. if you're gonna do something do it right OP. then you coulda gotten down on both knees...but not to put the ring on if you catch my drift *wink* *wink*

  Kawboy  |  1

50 she didnt say he "couldn't" do it himself she just said she was tired of waitin! She def deserves it for rushing it. And very rarely do women propose, not saying they don't but not offen

  sexxxysydney  |  14

I honestly don't understand why girls do this to guys. If he's not ready, continuously pressuring him about it is only gonna make things worse. If you really love him, he should be worth waiting for. Why the rush? If you're not willing to give him time, you probably shouldn't be together.

  CryMoreFMLs  |  14

He wants to quest for the magical moob.

First young traveller, you must enter the kingdom named "Walmart" and enter the dangerous "food court section."

Second, you must attain a secret perch nobody can see you at. Try not to be nervous or afraid. They will smell your fear.

Lastly, hunker down and await for the majestic moob to appear on some random fat person for you to enjoy and glory in!

You have your instructions young one. Go, make me proud!

  geko911  |  22

thx for pointing out an irrelevent fact 71. but rly im from can too n i sont have anything to say about the system. we have some good education. just ppinting it out

  YacL  |  15

Yes, 74, thank you for embarrassing Canadians everywhere. I have no idea what I would do if you hadn't of come to our defense. Please, never do it again.

  witchdoctor1  |  9

well 169... I find ur number n comment ironic. besides that. you are one of the many people that my parents n grandparents have said "changed this world for the generations" sorry. but in our nowadays term that'd be.... a slut/whore. n if your ok with that, cool. but other people know down the road you'll pay for the choice with n STD and more kids than you want

  godmax1  |  3

Canadians scored higher in educational rankings then the United States so, I am not sure why pointing out he is Canadian would make him a bad speller.

  noelykins1  |  19

You're all stupid. It's an idiom not a simile as you can clearly see he/she doesn't use like or as. And it's not really comparing to this rather showing and asking of so it's not exactly a metaphor either. It's like a combination of a rhetorical question and an idiom.

  hoogapooga  |  0

It is a metaphor. A metaphor is a figure of speech in which two objects are implicitly compared i.e. not explicitly stated via 'like' or 'as'. In this case, the woman is compared to milk, due to her presumed delectable insides, and marriage is compared to a cow, which I gather is cumbersome, bulky and unwieldy.

  synonymous  |  1

Nooooo.... The OP was given a rain check by her boyfriend. Not the other way around. Hopefully that helps you to understand. :) But yeah, it is pretty harsh no matter what foot the shoe is on.

  fthku  |  13

So basically, she'd be a whore. Sex for payment, in this case payment being marriage.

OP, there's nothing wrong with you asking him, nor is there anything wrong with him saying no. This shouldn't affect your sex life or make you dump him like some idiots here are saying. Maybe he shouldn't have said it the way he did, but people say stupid things at times, doesn't make them bad people.
I can't help but think, from the wording of the FML, that you knew he wasn't ready, but still, this shouldn't dramatically affect your relationship.

If you can wait for him, wait as long as you canfeel is enough. If you can't, have a talk with him.