Well, are you sure you're a non-loser boyfriend? You might want to consider the possibility that there's a personality trait you find attractive in women that statistically ties with having addiction problems, such as being extremely festive or depressed. It's not a problem in an of itself, but maybe a bit of introspection could help you dodge further bullets. Another possibility is that your exes aren't really addicts and that you're just being overly judgmental of their consumption habits.

Have I got a girl for you! If you can promise not to turn gay or trans, she'll really like you. I think she's a she.

Holy shit I can't believe my FML got published thank you. I've been actively dating for about 3 years now, but it has been over 8 years since I've been intimate with a woman. Not that I haven't been trying but health issues with my child and I have have made it difficult sometimes to date. But some of the biggest issues have been finding someone who can look pass the fact that I'm a single dad with two kids and health issues. But afew ladies on occasion seemed like good possibilities. And we did start to get to know each other better only for me to realize that they were drunks, heavy drug addicts, abusive to their kids, trying to use me for weed or just leading me on for kicks and being ghosted alot. so all I can really do is keep looking and hoping. and for anyone wondering I live in the upper peninsula of Michigan if you're interested LOL don't know why it says Ottawa.

“Just” a drug addict or a drunk? Do you think yourself superior to these women? Do you have any idea whatsoever what it’s like to suffer from addiction? It’s completely possible for decent—even wonderful—person to become an addict. I’m not saying that you’re obligated to date anyone who could be a danger to you or your kids, but I wish you would try to more compassionate.