You came to the right place to get sympathy from femicommies. If your boyfriend had any common sense, he'd leave you instead of just giving you the cold shoulder.

and you expect sympathy? **** you cheater. your boyfriend should leave you, the only reason he doesn't is probably that he thinks you were only thinking about someone else, not actually ******* him. and this is a girl btw.

I hope you didn't post this looking for sympathy.

Why are you complaining to us? You totally deserved it for cheating. That’s like if someone robbed a bank and complains that they got arrested, it’s not good to do.

Way to go, stupid.

Wow guys, what’s with all those insults and names calling? They might have been together only few weeks and she might have had her side guy beforehand etc. Either way, I don’t approve of cheating either but no need to be so judgemental and harsh.

So do you guys have an open relationship? If not then you’re just complaining about cheating and getting caught.

If you are a *****, be proud of that. Get in your bf face a remind him he knew you were a ***** since the start of your relationship. He doesn't deserve a ***** like you. Period!

If you have an open relationship that your bf knows about, and you just said the wrong name, ok, I get why his feelings are hurt. If you're a cheater, though, I hope your boyfriend leaves you because that's a bitchy, **** move. If you're not happy with your bf, and need "side dick," just end it already and be honest enough with the next guy to say you are polyamorous and need more than one lover. Cheating is not okay.

I feel like there is no way you could honestly be expecting sympathy. I hope you break it off with him and the other person you're sleeping with if they don't know the arrangement. I hope you one day are mature enough for a faithful relationship. Take care of yourself and others OP. Be honest with your boyfriend.