Nice guy vibes

By Anonymous - 25/09/2021 20:00 - United States - Huntington Beach

Today, a girl I've been casually seeing just gave me the, "You're a great guy, but I'm not ready for a relationship" speech. A few hours later, I see a video in a group chat of her making out and laughing with another guy, while my other friends just watched and laughed. I'm just done trying, why am I always getting shit on? FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 281
You deserved it 311

Same thing different taste

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Nikki 17

Maybe she just didn’t want a relationship and didn’t owe you anything and it’s nice of her to tell you before hooking up with someone else

you're failing to understand what casual means. casual is no commitment no strings. people date casually because they don't want a commitment

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you're failing to understand what casual means. casual is no commitment no strings. people date casually because they don't want a commitment

Nikki 17

Maybe she just didn’t want a relationship and didn’t owe you anything and it’s nice of her to tell you before hooking up with someone else

Lora Wood 11

Be happy you are young and have fun. Expand your horizons, volunteer some where. Then when you least expect it some girl pick you. Good Luck.

And1 12

She was being polite. Just move on…

Typical polite refusal. Sorry but she has no obligation to date you, at least you did not get just ghosted (which is rude). So move on, maybe try to be less of a 'nice guy'.

Relationships are a numbers game, be glad she pulled this now and not after you'd wasted more time investing in her.

Put on your big boy pants! You weren't shat upon. Someone you are "casually seeing" can make out with whomever else they want, and so can you. Move on.

Have you considered that no one wants to date you because you feel entitled to a girl?

If this really keeps happening to you, it's time to consider that you're the problem. Time for self reflection.