I hope you mean EX-fiancé. You don't want to marry a bum. He needed to take that job while looking for something better.

He can be choosy if he has other support. Perhaps you need to motivate him.

It’s better than nothing. I work as a dishwasher and it ain’t all that bad. It’s a very stressful job, but I enjoy what I do.

Does he have a track record of being fired or leaving jobs? If so, get out now! He will never hold down a job longer than a couple months. Trust me, I had an ex who would quit or get fired, but thought he was too good to work for minimum wage or a less desirable job. Seriously, don't be the one taking care of him.

Fiancee here. I "don't" need to get a job right away, because I get a check from the government for my military service, and have a bunch of money saved up in the bank. I pay all the bills with the exception of the electric bill(which my fiancee pays, but I can pay it if needed). I held this last job for close to 5 years, and have more than 10 years in this field. so I am simply taking some time to de-stress, and relax before finding something new. PS- to all who say we should break up, not going to happen, we support each other through thick and thin, this is a bump in the road, nothing more.