Lazy git

I hope you mean EX-fiancé.

You don't want to marry a bum. He needed to take that job while looking for something better.

Maybe he's worth way more than that and wants to get his career back on track? Long term thinking.

He can be choosy if he has other support. Perhaps you need to motivate him.

It’s better than nothing. I work as a dishwasher and it ain’t all that bad. It’s a very stressful job, but I enjoy what I do.

Does he have a track record of being fired or leaving jobs? If so, get out now! He will never hold down a job longer than a couple months. Trust me, I had an ex who would quit or get fired, but thought he was too good to work for minimum wage or a less desirable job. Seriously, don't be the one taking care of him.

Fiancee here. I "don't" need to get a job right away, because I get a check from the government for my military service, and have a bunch of money saved up in the bank.

I pay all the bills with the exception of the electric bill(which my fiancee pays, but I can pay it if needed). I held this last job for close to 5 years, and have more than 10 years in this field.

so I am simply taking some time to de-stress, and relax before finding something new.

PS- to all who say we should break up, not going to happen, we support each other through thick and thin, this is a bump in the road, nothing more.