Inappropriate

By Anonymous - 28/01/2022 20:01

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Today, my mom suggested that her brother, my uncle, walk me down the aisle at my upcoming wedding, since my dad passed away last week. My uncle molested me since I was 8 and my mom never believed me, even to this day. She tells me to, “stop being an ungrateful bitch,” since he’s chipping in for the wedding costs. FML
I agree, your life sucks 3 091
You deserved it 97

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I say you uninvite your mom. Who cares if she chipped in. Fuck her for not believing you and being such a selfish, insensitive [insert your favorite word here]. I’m so sorry your dad passed away and your mom is toxic :( I think you should think about cutting her out of your life and embracing your new family and other people who care about you. Good luck, OP ❤️

This sounds harsh.... Elope. You need to be with your husband. it is nice to have friends and family around. Bit, that shouldn't include people who abused you. that is a happy day for you. make it so.

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He's hoping to get in one more sneaky boob grab before you get married.

@RichardPencil - Did this one *really* need to be posted?

Dude. You’re gross.

I say you uninvite your mom. Who cares if she chipped in. Fuck her for not believing you and being such a selfish, insensitive [insert your favorite word here]. I’m so sorry your dad passed away and your mom is toxic :( I think you should think about cutting her out of your life and embracing your new family and other people who care about you. Good luck, OP ❤️

Make sure when the wedding thing is all over, you permanent remove your mom from her life. Her not believing her child was sexually assaulted is an ultimate failure of a parent. Cut ties with her forever. Also don't be afraid to give your uncle a good kick in the nuts. He doesn't deserve a pair since he uses it to abuse people.

I mean could always try and get him to come at you again, then stab him in the groin

Ban your uncle, your mom, and any family who sides with your uncle from the wedding, and go no contact with them. If it gets to be too stressful from those family members, eloping is an option. I am so furious and sorry you're going through this crap, OP.

This sounds harsh.... Elope. You need to be with your husband. it is nice to have friends and family around. Bit, that shouldn't include people who abused you. that is a happy day for you. make it so.

I would elope

Ravenclawed 10

Give whatever money back to him and cut him out of the wedding. Be firm with your mother that no means no, regardless if she believes you or not.

Why are you letting him chip in on the wedding costs? If he molested you I'd have absolutely nothing to do with him.

It's possible OP wasn't informed of that until now.