By random - 29/01/2012 10:53 - United Kingdom
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34- If it was a guy who had 'hooked up right away' would you have made the same comment? Or suggested he deserved it? And maybe you would have said YDI no matter the gender, I don't mean to attack you, but it is true that in our society men are allowed to fool around and have no consequences for it, yet women are considered loose or not deserving of respect if they fool around.
52- I understand that males get away with things more than females. But it's wrong. Even if OP was a male, he would deserve it anyways for being such an animal. My point is that relationships aren't all about sex. Sure it's nice, but there are other beautiful things about a relationship too. (:
I guess he is in the same boat as you Op, in "love" with someone who does not see them the same way. Or at least that is what I got out of the whole sex with Op/needing comforting about the other girl. There is nothing wrong with having sex with someone you know. Op must not have told him about her feelings or did it because she wanted to have sex with someone she cares for. Either way, if the two people involved consent to the sex then I don't see how they are animals, they are adults who like sex. There is nothing wrong with waiting and there is nothing wrong with having sex, if both people are single and agree to it.