But mah granbabies!

By That 30s Show - 19/03/2024 03:00 - United States - Chicago

Today, my mother was guilting my wife and I for freezing embryos as a delay tactic to deny her grandchildren. Fed up, I told her, "Why don't you throw in a 'You'll miss me when I'm dead' to finish this guilt trip?" Now, she's crying and my father wants to murder me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 655
You deserved it 102

Same thing different taste

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Nobody is entitled to grandchildren. If she wants any, she can adopt or foster.

It is not her choice as to whether or not you and your spouse even have children. And I'm one who grew up around manipulators, sorry , guilt trippers. So, I think what you said was needed. You have control of your life and for that, good on you. She will get over it. Don't let her dictate your life. That will drive a wedge between you and your partner.

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Nobody is entitled to grandchildren. If she wants any, she can adopt or foster.

d j mom 3

you really 'stirred the pot' with that comment. however, seeing that your mom is an obvious drama queen I say your life is your life. tell them to get a hobby. pickelball maybe?

tiptoppc 19

I’m thinking planking. OP can even donate the hole they can plank in.

It is not her choice as to whether or not you and your spouse even have children. And I'm one who grew up around manipulators, sorry , guilt trippers. So, I think what you said was needed. You have control of your life and for that, good on you. She will get over it. Don't let her dictate your life. That will drive a wedge between you and your partner.

25mishkamoo98 1

Honestly, in some situations it’s better to freeze the embryos before a transfer as there’s a higher chance of that embryo sticking. You and your wife own your timeline. Sending care to you both