By kira - 9/3/2021 08:01

Weird and scary

Today, the guy who has harassed me every day for a month straight proposed, with an actual diamond ring which he’d burned the receipt for. I said no, of course. Later, I found out that he’d attempted suicide. Twice. FML
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By  Bogrbon  |  22

I knew a girl whose fiancée at the time threatened to kill himself if she ever broke it off as a way of manipulation. It took a long time for her to realize she was not responsible for his choices. Nor are you for this guys. Obviously the harassment sucks, but don’t for a second feel guilty about the choices he made, because they’re his, not yours.

By  Ellimac21  |  11

No matter what happens and no matter what people tell you, DO NOT EVER feel guilty because of this guy's choice and behaviour! This is an attempt at manipulation and guilt-tripping. He decided to buy the ring, you did not ask for it. If he continues to harass you, call the police and fill a complaint. No means no and enough is enough.

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By  Bogrbon  |  22

I knew a girl whose fiancée at the time threatened to kill himself if she ever broke it off as a way of manipulation. It took a long time for her to realize she was not responsible for his choices. Nor are you for this guys. Obviously the harassment sucks, but don’t for a second feel guilty about the choices he made, because they’re his, not yours.

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  KarmaComeBack  |  0

My very recent ex used to do exactly this to me. Last time was Christmas Day. He did it throughout the last two years of pur relationship and it makes you feel very trapped, helpless and generally just like s***. It took me a long time to realise exactly what you've just said, it's incredibly difficult to grasp that concept whilst you're in that situation though

By  Ellimac21  |  11

No matter what happens and no matter what people tell you, DO NOT EVER feel guilty because of this guy's choice and behaviour! This is an attempt at manipulation and guilt-tripping. He decided to buy the ring, you did not ask for it. If he continues to harass you, call the police and fill a complaint. No means no and enough is enough.