By fullalove - 10/12/2014 18:34 - United States

Today, my husband sent me a link to an article titled "5 ways you are unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage." FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 121
You deserved it 7 788

fullalove tells us more.

Hey guys. Let me start off by saying how excited I am that I got published! Obviously there is a story behind fml. My husband and I have been together since I was 14, and married since 19 (I'm 21 right now). We have No problems communicating with each other, but we just recently lost a set of twins, which has been really hard on both of us. We have both been dealing with it in our own way, and at times it feels it is tearing us apart. We both have sat down and attempted to work things out together, but at the moment it feel as if nothing will ever be the same. I have shut him out from time to time, which I definitely have tried not to do, but sometimes it feels as if I need to work things out with myself. As for the article, him and I got into it this morning, and I left for work angry. When I got off, I turned on my phone to see the link, which I clicked to the unfortunate page. I did read through it, and it's sad to say I was guilty of a few. I will be working on myself, because I love my husband, and I don't want this tragic event to be the end of us.

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i think he's trying to tell you something.

Pay attention. Then ask questions for clarification. Not the best way to initiate this sort of conversation but at least he said something.

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relationship goals

Yo do understand the sarcasm in this comment, right? I think you might be the confused one #48.

I'm not confused, you just aren't that bright.

badluckalex 23

we all know you were being sarcastic (hello this is fml) but there is no need to be rude

Intahdex 15

what are you talking about? 75% of the people on this app dont understand or just cant handle sarcasm. thats why funny comments always have -128

colton_colton 49

I'm sure he's very lucky to have you OP

How would you know that? You only read 4 sentences about her day.

1 sentence

how is this any different from "I'm sure you're beautiful" comments

#35: Cut him some slack; counting is hard lol.

I think you meant this sarcastically but it seems sarcasm is not captured well when written, still though I know what you mean...

i think he's trying to tell you something.

Yea it's his hint to you op time for counseling.

That article is a complete lie! There are at least 6 ways to destroy a relationship! Not 5! Silly article!

tehdarkness 21

At least he's reaching out, hopefully before it's too late for you guys. Don't turn it into a game; treat it like an invitation to dialogue about maintaining your marriage.

I'm not sure if I should say FYL, because that's tactless, or YDI, because maybe you are. Awkward..

AMcM_fml 21

Comment moderated for rule-breaking.

Show it anyway

That might be a number in that list...

At least you haven't lost him yet. Good luck, OP.

Send him back "five ways to lose your wife"

1) In the forest 2) On a desert island .....

3. in the mall 4. in the ocean

5. in a sink hole

badluckalex 23

1. in my pants 2. in my pants 3. in my pants 4. in my pants 5. in my pants

bonus #6 tell her there is a shoe sale somewhere far where she can't find her way back...

I think that's number 2 on the list.

Pay attention. Then ask questions for clarification. Not the best way to initiate this sort of conversation but at least he said something.

Send him a link proving why communication is key. If he's having issues with you then he should be man enough to discuss them with you.

Or she should be enough to to know how to teat him?

Maybe she is not giving him enough teat, that may be the problem.

I saw that today.

I thought it was a pretty valid article.