By NordicNathan - 14/03/2016 04:49 - Canada - Burlington

Today, my girlfriend of two months and I are in completely different points in our lives. She ambushed me with ideas of having kids, getting married and being together forever. Currently, my biggest concern is passing the tenth grade. FML
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NordicNathan tells us more.

Hey, I'm the author of the FML. So to clarify I just turned 16, she just turned 17 and is in the 12th grade. I've had my doubts about our relationship for a while because of how incompatible we are as people, but her talking about what she wants to name our kids and how cute they will be was kind of the last straw for me. She said "I love you" after our second time seeing each other and after she had already cheated on me, so I definitely hear all the comments about telling her my concerns and/or breaking up with her. But she cries at the drop of a hat and is what I would consider emotionally unstable, this is also the reason I didn't break up with her after she cheated on me. I wasn't raised to make people cry so I tried to be understanding in the situation. She is so bad that she is still crying about her previous boyfriend while telling me that I'm the best boyfriend ever. So I don't know how to break it to her without crushing her. Any ideas?

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Not a bad boyfriend. Just a boyfriend that has his priorities straight.

I'm glad for once someone has their priorities straight

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I have the same concerns as you how does algebra work

You have the right idea my friend. Tell her your thoughts on all this and if she respects them good, if not this probably isn't the relationship for you

You are my hero for recognizing that, as a high schooler, you only need to be worrying about what's appropriate for a high schooler to worry about. This is your time to figure out who you are. If she's taking her dreams of playing house seriously and starts pressuring you, RUN. You don't need someone who doesn't respect your feelings on this.

I'm glad you have some sense and your priorities straight.

Run bro, NOW before she traps you because she "accidentally" gets pregnant

At that age? Damn... You need to have a serious talk with her.

TheSaiyanQueen 8

Dude when I was in 10th grade I was too worried about grades and sports to have a gf. Kids now days.

You're still a child just live it wait for those worriers when you're older