By MenSuck - 01/09/2009 03:56 - United States

Today, I told the guy I have been sort of dating that I want to connect emotionally before sleeping with him. He told me that he already had an emotional connection with his fiancée and was only interested in sleeping with me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 49 410
You deserved it 9 107

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Just to clear the air: 1.I'm not a ****, obviously, since I didn't sleep with the creep 2.I did not know about the girl 3.Sort of dating means: going on dates, kissing, holding hands, but not boyfriend/girlfriend (aka that weird stage when your facebook relationship status goes blank or to it's complicated) 4.Trust me, I ran very fast, and there were no obvious warning signs 5.Thanks for reading.

Top comments

mehwhateverr 0

well, when it comes to guys, basically its: handsome, mentaly stable, and single, except you can only pick 2


Good for you for speaking up - and at least he was honest about what he wants. Now you can walk away with only a little hurt, not a big one!

well, when it comes to guys, basically its: handsome, mentaly stable, and single, except you can only pick 2

sexymessy 0

Lol. #32 is right. But damn I'm surprised he was that honest about it.

#32 Well then what about a guy who is handsome, mentally stable and not single? Then he goes and dumps his girlfriend, isn’t he now all 3? Basically I think a guy can be either, funny, handsome, nice guy or mentally stable. A girl can pick at most 3/4 of these qualities, the last quality he’ll have will always be the exact opposite of the one she didn’t pick.

Yes, I concur, on over 3 billion people on our globe. This is the same for everyone one of them. Nice generalization, dumbfuck.

22cute 17

That's true till they reach their 50s then they're all ugly, the nice ones are still married, and you have to choose between funny men or mentally stable ones. Lol

mehwhateverr 0

"...Well, she was precious like a flower She grew wild, wild but innocent A perfect prayer in a desperate hour She was everything beautiful and different Stupid boy, you can't fence that in Stupid boy, it's like holding back the wind she laid her heart and soul right in your hands And you stole her every dream and you crushed her plans She never even knew she had a choice and that's what happens When the only voice she hears is telling her she can't Stupid boy, stupid boy Oh..."

actually, it not trollin. im tryin to reply to FMLs with lyrics from a song that will relate to the FML. the only tough part is tryin to figure it out before everyone else replies and you are at the bottom. and "stupid Boy" by keith urban

SuperMeme 0

Wow dude(tte), you're so awesome! The way you reply to someone's problems with songs you didn't even write is totally not douchey! Seriously! How did you think of such awesomeness?

hmm no #53, no one could detect the sarcasm there! OP: I hope you slapped him before you walked away. And people wonder why I don't trust men. Ha ha ha.

bittersweet_by_n 0

I KNOW THT SONG! ...that is all

californiareader 0

well that really just sucks a lot.....

You've been sorta dating him? So... either you have slept with him, and you arn't dating him, which i would call you a ****... or... You havn't done anything with him, then i would say, big deal?

wazdog 4

Agreed. OP hasn't hasn't felt an emotional connection and hasn't had sex with the guy. By "sort of dating" she probably meant only she thought they were dating.

no...not "either"...just OR...because she specifically said in the FML that they didn't have sex yet. She wanted to establish an emotional connection BEFORE sleeping with him.