By OhNo - 02/03/2013 13:31 - United States - Castlewood

Today, despite the fact of being together two years, and having a daughter, my fiancée still refuses to tell her parents about us. We're getting married in six months. FML
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How can they not know about your daughter?

Wizardo 33

There's only two explanations, her parents are super religious and strict or they're Scientologists, I'd go with the latter.

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I'm sure they already know via the grapevine.

enormouselephant 15

There's a chance they don't live close by and have none of the same acquaintances. I'm pretty sure it would have come up had they known!

^Exactly! I'm 4,000 miles away from my parents for a reason. They don't find out something unless it comes from me. I really do think we are missing important information regarding this FML post, however.

How can they not know about your daughter?

Maybe she's just REALLY fat, so it didn't show :p

How would you hide a small child? Have you seen a small child? They are not easily concealable. And they bite.

hooligyn123 18

Fact: Some people do not live in the same state/country/province/locale as their parents.

LilLube 2

@ #43 No way! I don't believe you

tjv3 10

I'm thinking she is ashamed of you OP . That really sucks. Are you sure you want to marry someone who is ashamed of you?

#52 are to you freaking stupid?

maybe she is ashame of her parents or something bad hapend between her and her parents

hopsinlove17 26

63: oh, the irony.

xcountrygirlx 8

63-Do you know what sarcasm is?

DyslexicPanda 12

Does that mean you've tried, 34?

63: 52 was being sarcastic. "Are to you freaking stupid?" Really? You really should not call people stupid.

That's BS. There's a good chance that OP's fiance just has a really bad relationship with her parents, to the poiint where she no longer talks to them about anything. So she's not going to call them out of the blue to tell them that she's pregnant or getting married.

Stop spamming us with your "ewwww" comments.

Wizardo 33

There's only two explanations, her parents are super religious and strict or they're Scientologists, I'd go with the latter.

What if they are lesbian and she doesn't want to come out to them? They are having "a" daughter, not "my" or "our". She could be in vitro or adopted. I doubt this theory myself, but I'm just putting out another possibility.

You are trying to read way too much into this.

I don't see the difference. The way I see it there's only one option: The parents are batshit crazy, doesn't matter which branch of crazy, that's what they are.

This may sound harsh but it seems to me he might be embarrassed to tel them about you. If this is the case I recommend you call off the marriage as it will cause major problems for you and your future in laws.

Lizzy500 16

SHE refuses to tell HER parents. Reading comprehension fail.

Whoops it seems I was wrong my apologies.

CanyonRose 16

Kudos for apologizing

Call off the wedding/dump her is the 99% answer to any relationship related fml. They have a child together. Think inside the box people!

She either doesn't like you very much, or she doesn't like her parents very much. For your sake, I hope it is the latter. Sorry OP.

crazytwinsmom 25

Maybe her parents are prejudiced about something that would not be apparent in your daughter. That doesn't excuse her but might explain. But still, she needs to get things out in the open soon. Good luck!

I doubt it has anything to do with the parents. Maybe he's already married and he's afraid they'll spill the beans.

Fiancé = male Fiancée = female So that would be "she" not "he"

crazytwinsmom 25

'her parents'

15- I didn't know the difference between those until know. Thank you. c:

Well know you now.

Maybe there's some problems going on between your fiancée and her parents. Have your tried asking why she won't introduce you to them? She may give you and excuse or a proper explanation. If she gives you an excuse, she's definitely not a keeper.

perdix 29

Are you the wrong race or religion for her parents? Maybe she's told her parents that she's a lesbian and you'd spoil that ruse.