Crushed

By Anonymous - 16/10/2023 00:02

Today, I realized I have a crush on one of my co-workers. I’m married. I would never ever act on it but it’s really scaring me that I have these feelings and can’t make them go away. FML
I agree, your life sucks 701
You deserved it 195

Same thing different taste

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headlock95 3

First off, don’t feel bad, it’s natural. Best thing you could do is remove yourself from the situation. Maybe ask for a transfer?

And what would happen if they would show interest? Are you strong enough to reject them? Those type of things have the tendency to slow nibble on your resolve. Until a bad period or an unexpected moment makes you do things you thought would never happen.

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headlock95 3

First off, don’t feel bad, it’s natural. Best thing you could do is remove yourself from the situation. Maybe ask for a transfer?

Just let your crush let them know how you feel, they'll most likely reject you and you can move on. It's a perfect plan. Nothing could go wrong.

And what would happen if they would show interest? Are you strong enough to reject them? Those type of things have the tendency to slow nibble on your resolve. Until a bad period or an unexpected moment makes you do things you thought would never happen.

Tell your spouse about it, then tell HR and see if a transfer is possible. If you're strong enough not to act on it then it need not be a problem as long as you're open and transparent about it.