Alexa, play Men's Needs by The Cribs

By Anonymous - 11/05/2021 06:01

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Today, I caught my husband setting up an affair with my old school-friend. I have chronic pain, a hormone imbalance and some other issues that means I'm losing interest in being intimate at all. It hurts. I don't enjoy this either. FML
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She's definitely not appearing to be okay with it. She caught her husband trying to cheat on her because her medical issues are affecting their physical intimacy, and she's probably doubly mad at her husband.

For most of our lives sex is part of the glue that holds couples together. It’s not everything, but it’s important. I am so sorry for the circumstances you (and your husband) are in. I have no idea how this situation is going to be resolved, but I know it won’t be easy on anyone in it. It probably goes without saying, but penis/vagina intercourse is not the only way to give and receive sexual pleasure.

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I understand this but can you make sure this relationship will remain purely physical? Will there be any psychological effects to you later on in this? Talk every aspect out before you let your husband do anything of the sorts.

She's definitely not appearing to be okay with it. She caught her husband trying to cheat on her because her medical issues are affecting their physical intimacy, and she's probably doubly mad at her husband.

For most of our lives sex is part of the glue that holds couples together. It’s not everything, but it’s important. I am so sorry for the circumstances you (and your husband) are in. I have no idea how this situation is going to be resolved, but I know it won’t be easy on anyone in it. It probably goes without saying, but penis/vagina intercourse is not the only way to give and receive sexual pleasure.

Cheating on someone because they became disabled is what lowlifes do. Dump him and find a real man. (And yes, TONS of us would be willing to date\support you through this! There's lots of guys out there who like caring for their datemate, I say as I obsessively feed all my friends and family...:p)