By Anonymous - 11/5/2021 06:01

Alexa, play Men's Needs by The Cribs

  Today, I caught my husband setting up an affair with my old school-friend. I have chronic pain, a hormone imbalance and some other issues that means I'm losing interest in being intimate at all. It hurts. I don't enjoy this either. FML
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By  Bogrbon  |  23

She's definitely not appearing to be okay with it. She caught her husband trying to cheat on her because her medical issues are affecting their physical intimacy, and she's probably doubly mad at her husband.

By  Chazzster  |  21

For most of our lives sex is part of the glue that holds couples together. It’s not everything, but it’s important. I am so sorry for the circumstances you (and your husband) are in. I have no idea how this situation is going to be resolved, but I know it won’t be easy on anyone in it.

It probably goes without saying, but penis/vagina intercourse is not the only way to give and receive sexual pleasure.

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By  Nisha Rahman  |  3

I understand this but can you make sure this relationship will remain purely physical? Will there be any psychological effects to you later on in this? Talk every aspect out before you let your husband do anything of the sorts.

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  Bogrbon  |  23

She's definitely not appearing to be okay with it. She caught her husband trying to cheat on her because her medical issues are affecting their physical intimacy, and she's probably doubly mad at her husband.

By  Chazzster  |  21

For most of our lives sex is part of the glue that holds couples together. It’s not everything, but it’s important. I am so sorry for the circumstances you (and your husband) are in. I have no idea how this situation is going to be resolved, but I know it won’t be easy on anyone in it.

It probably goes without saying, but penis/vagina intercourse is not the only way to give and receive sexual pleasure.