Alexa, play "Don't Give Up" by Peter Gabriel

By Anonymous - 19/12/2021 10:58

Today, I've come to terms that I'm only living to work. I'm going to be 25, no friends, never had any experience with women. Been trying all year to meet someone, hasn't worked out at all. Dead end job, school did nothing for me. I literally just exist to work, and have no happy memories at all. I give up. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 280
You deserved it 239

Same thing different taste

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Hi, I have went through the same phase! Education was finished, Job found and then what. Out of boredom I joined the voluntary fire brigade and a local sports group. A small kid once said, love is like a fart: If you push it too hard, only shit will come out. So, you are 25, you have your life a head of you! We are in a pandemic, but there are people who had outlived the second world war. So the pandemic will pass, one do not know when. Hang in there! Good luck and BR

25 is young. Pick a hobby, do what you like. Let people find you.

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hardhead45103 12

Join the military and change your life

Jon Tessler 14

that is what I did at 19. I am now 57 and fully retired. the military set me on a path that allowed me to focus on goals, and even helped me realize how much I "needed to grow up" from the kid I was.

Nikki 17

I don’t think this is the right place to be recruiting dude

Life is not easy better get used to it.

25 is young. Pick a hobby, do what you like. Let people find you.

Hi, I have went through the same phase! Education was finished, Job found and then what. Out of boredom I joined the voluntary fire brigade and a local sports group. A small kid once said, love is like a fart: If you push it too hard, only shit will come out. So, you are 25, you have your life a head of you! We are in a pandemic, but there are people who had outlived the second world war. So the pandemic will pass, one do not know when. Hang in there! Good luck and BR

Keep working hard, things will fall in place. Women like stability and dedication.

justwanttobesocial...butalsonot 9

Look into DBT therapy, and if you're able to go, then go. Was in a similar situation and it's changed my life. Wishing you the best 💜

Woah, back up. You’re 25 for Christ’s sake. Get screened for depression. Please your life is ahead of you and it will get better. I promise.

So what's something you always wanted to do as a kid you could never afford to do? I imagine you've got money now--go do it! Horse riding, learning to kayak... If you don't have anything to do, you have a lot of spare time and money. Go find something fun! Romance is not the only thing out there, you know.

slhiggx 17

Check out YouTube. How to make/build friendships. How to date. Etc tutorials on how to be happy. There are people and things out there to help you.