By nenes_cargo - 24/03/2016 03:20 - Czech Republic - Prague
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I've had a cashier comment about me buying condoms. I went to the store with my guy friend and the cashier told us to have fun that night. I was seeing someone else at the time and my guy friend is gay so we weren't going to be doing anything fun together.
Take it as an ass backward compliment and keep it moving. Some men are just dicks and can't process the difference appropriate between inappropriate.
I hate the enabling idea that things like this should be taken as a compliment. I once reported a chef in the restaurant I worked in because he would openly stare at my chest and walk by and purposely graze my ass and make gross comments. You know what my manager said? "You should just take it as a compliment." He never got fired despite many more complaints. Wtf. People have told me this on numerous occasions like I should be thankful someone thinks I'm attractive enough to be sexually harassed. How is this kind of thinking so common? We should all stop using this excuse. It is NOT okay.