Today, I told my husband that I didn't feel like he loved me. He looked away and replied, "Fair enough". FML
mymumdidntloveme tells us more.
Hey, OP here. We are still together. Have attended counselling and we are both being much more open and loving with each other. The issue was both his and mine but we are both working on our problems together and I'm proud to say our marriage is better and more fun than ever :)
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DocBastard 40
Fair enough? What's fair about a husband not loving a wife? I'm sick and ******* tired of hearing so many stories of infidelity, marriages falling apart, etc. What the hell happened to humanity? No one seems to care enough about anyone these days, especially people who swear to love someone until they die. It saddens me and angers me and makes me want to throw my desk out the ******* window. Clearly I need decaf.
91hayek 31
He can't help the way you feel. All he can do is try to show you. Still, he could have at least asked why if he really cared.
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Comments (76)
weveallbeenthere 30
at least you know. doesn't make it easier, but you know.
Sierra7211 17
Props to you for saying something, though, OP. It's better than just sitting around feeling unloved and being passive aggressive. You took the first step towards working out your problem. Now maybe the next step is counseling or something of that nature
worldclassrager 41
What kind of reply is that? Aside from being totally rude
ladybugz23 13
what a asshole
pensacolalady 10
Take it from a woman that's been married 30 yrs. don't say stuff like that! It makes them angry & you'll get your feelings hurt every time! I know my hubby loves me, I don't have to ask. If you need to ask, maybe something's wrong with you.
zelliemurena 6
well not always is that true it m be that she just felt unappreciated in other areas of her life and just needed some reassuring if my fiancee said that to me id make sure he knew n ik he'd do the same for me
limabeans101029 21
41- Well yes, YOU might know that your husband loves you but obviously OP's relationship isn't the same as yours. If she has genuine concerns that her husband doesn't love her anymore, don't you think it's quite important that she talks to him about it?
zelliemurena 6
can we say divorce?
sstillwe 5
Is it bad I showed my boyfriend this and he said "that sounds like me. "
tayymeds 23
Gone fishing have we?
limabeans101029 21
Talking to your husband about a serious concern you have about the relationship is not "fishing" for anything. Things like this NEED to be talked about otherwise problems would never be solved.
creepyclowntown 10
you guys loved each other at same point so best to figure out what point it broke and try and fix it.It is most likely both peoples fault for different reasons.you never know the problem if you take it face value and not talk to him.
Dr_Eeevil 7
You're looking for attention but it seems he's not giving it to you. You either do this a decent amount which isn't bad because you're married and he should respect you and also maybe he misunderstood you or just respects your answer and isn't going to argue with you but work to do better?