By outthelabyrynth - 17/03/2014 19:41 - Netherlands - Egelshoek

Today, I realized I'm so scared of my manager that I don't even dare to quit my job. The same job I want to quit exactly because I'm so scared of her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 817
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outthelabyrynth tells us more.

First things first: I'm a girl, and I'm not a prostitute. (That would pay much better, though) I work at a restaurant with several managers who are all quite nice, but she's the boss of the whole restaurant so she's in charge of everything. Now the thing is, she's quite nice to everyone... Except to me. I don't know what she has against me, but working with her is like getting a constant shitstorm over you. Always mean comments, giving me the worst tasks, and no matter how I improve myself, it's never good enough. She keeps telling me I'm too stupid to work there (which I'm not, I have higher qualifications than everyone there, but I need the money to save up for college) and when other people make a mistake, she blames me for it. At this restaurant, when you want to quit, you have to tell her personally. The worst she can do is indeed yell at me. I'm not a shy person, but when people get angry at me or start yelling, I get really quiet and submissive and I feel like shit. I'll probably search for another job first, and then make up a believable story for why I want to quit, so she can't get too mad at me. Thanks for all the support and I'll do my best to stand up!

Top comments

colton_colton 49

Just quit and then RUN. You can make it OP :)

Wizardo 33

Unless you work for a bounty hunting firm, firm up and quit. Being so scared at work is hardly worth it.

Comments

Just stop coming in and he'll fire you.

Make a video of it like Marina Shifrin

TheBackgroundKid 5

Grow a damn spine. What is she gonna do to you. Find a public place and quit damn it!!!

I agree. I don't understand this FEAR. Makes me chuckle a bit actually. I fear few people in life. I won't let one of them be my boss.

Coeliacchic93 21

not everyone is the same as you 72. No need to think your better than someone else because they are afraid, we are all different and different experiences that mold us into who we are.

I've been in this position before, OP. You just have to do it. It's such a fantastic feeling when you do it, and you feel a lot more confident. Don't let you boss dictate your life. Good luck :)

Just tell her you quit! Whats the worst thing she can do?! Fire you?

She can't do anything about it or to you if you quit. Keep that in mind.

workingzombie13 6

if your scared of her get what she does to you on camera, then show it her her manager. if nothing improves quit