was your grand father involved in the discussion? I would want to have my wishes known before I go.

That sucks.... But better now than never...

thee sammee thing happeened to me. my grandmaa offered me to goo to the cemetery wiith her and pick ouut the grave design.

That's ok. I helped plan my grandpa's funeral. I was also part of several discussions about who would handle his will. And I made a video to play at the funeral but it crashed. twice. I finally finished it at 6 am the day of. It literally finished publishing to a sm card on the drive to the funeral home. Also, my grandma was doped up on valium that whole week.

rOn-b: beware u may b d nxt on tht list.. .

i know what u mean. i found my grandpa's cremation plans the other week.

guys, I am the OP, so listen up... my grandpa wasnt actually aware it was happening he had no say whatsoever he wasnt planning his own, they planned it FOR him, while he wasnt there

i am 13 so i am a young child, and it did upset me

I read a few of the first comments, and the last, and I have to say you guys are jerks. I mean, how would you feel if your wife and daughter were planning your funeral without you being in on it in any way whatsoever? It's more of a FHL than FYL but you get the point I'm making.

More of a fhl.

For people that are being assholes about this. sometimes people don't feel comforable about their families talking about planning a funeral even when the person is still alive. WTF is wrong with MADd people here saying that she is bitching!

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