By SadWife - 25/12/2018 16:00 - United States - Aurora
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You may not have gotten to consummate your marriage right away, but you can't account for everything. If he was well during the ceremony, focus on that. After all, being married is what matters, isn't it? I do have to question why you spent the whole day crying and drinking, though. He was ill. It's not like he divorced you, or cheated on you. Make the most of the future you have together, and remember your wedding before your husband got down with the sickness. Oh, and if you're planning on having kids, or more kids, moderate your drinking. Not a good idea to reach for the rosé every time your plans don't work out the way you wanted.
That really sucks OP. I hope you can make a special day when he gets better and have a really amazing time. You guys had the ceremony and you are married! that is amazing! But you are definitely allowed to feel sad for this. be good to yourself and him
If it can make you feel better, i spent my wedding night at the vet as my cat came home injured when we returned home after dinner. In a few years it’ll just be a funny anecdote, trust me!
The wedding is one day. The marriage is forever.
Y'all can always make it up for that day, though.
Praying for you and your husband.
And what, pray tell (pun intended), is that supposed to achieve?
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You may not have gotten to consummate your marriage right away, but you can't account for everything. If he was well during the ceremony, focus on that. After all, being married is what matters, isn't it? I do have to question why you spent the whole day crying and drinking, though. He was ill. It's not like he divorced you, or cheated on you. Make the most of the future you have together, and remember your wedding before your husband got down with the sickness. Oh, and if you're planning on having kids, or more kids, moderate your drinking. Not a good idea to reach for the rosé every time your plans don't work out the way you wanted.
to be fair that's a huge day. I don't blame her for being upset and she acknowledged her feelings being unreasonable. she wanted a picture perfect wedding day dude lol not like she's genuinely angry at her partner for something he can't control