By SadWife - 25/12/2018 16:00 - United States - Aurora
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Your wedding is just one day. Living your marriage every day thereafter is what matters. If marriage was defined by how well the wedding day went ... I’m not going to go there.
I understand why you were disappointed, but getting drunk and sobbing all night seems a little over the top. I would think you'd be more concerned about your sick husband's well-being. Perhaps you two can have an honorary wedding night now that he's feeling better.
I don’t understand. you married this man, so obviously you care for his well-being. why does him being sick on your wedding day make you upset? maybe you should remember why you got married in the first place. not for the wedding but because you love one another. sad people these days get married for the wedding festivities and not for the right reasons.
Maybe you’re a bit too selfish to be married? You’d think your husband being that sick would be more important than your stupid ruined day
Perspective: Marriage isn't about the wedding day. It's about everything that comes after the wedding day. Good luck to you both.
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You may not have gotten to consummate your marriage right away, but you can't account for everything. If he was well during the ceremony, focus on that. After all, being married is what matters, isn't it? I do have to question why you spent the whole day crying and drinking, though. He was ill. It's not like he divorced you, or cheated on you. Make the most of the future you have together, and remember your wedding before your husband got down with the sickness. Oh, and if you're planning on having kids, or more kids, moderate your drinking. Not a good idea to reach for the rosé every time your plans don't work out the way you wanted.
to be fair that's a huge day. I don't blame her for being upset and she acknowledged her feelings being unreasonable. she wanted a picture perfect wedding day dude lol not like she's genuinely angry at her partner for something he can't control