You're a dumbass. YDI. Also, FIRST!

because just telling her she had a spider on her was too hard?

Welcome to America.

I would have hugged you or something. What a bitch. #1, how did he deserve it?

He was just trying to help!

Nobody gives a damn if you're first. It makes you look like a jackass. To OP - For future incidences, DO NOT TOUCH WOMEN NO MATTER WHERE. They will usually consider it sexual harassment. Just point it out and let them deal with it.

#6 - Don't touch ANYBODY. Just don't touch people at work. Handshakes are one thing, or tapping someone on the shoulder if you need to get by them... Otherwise just don't. Better safe than sorry because touching people in the workplace is basically a huge gray area. Pretty interesting article on the subject: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203937504574252261140036116.html

well #2 the OP could have said there's a spider on your shirt...but i don't think the op deserved it

Ooh. D: Sorry, man!

the spider should be the one accused of sexual harassment

hahahahaha ^^

I'm not sure that it being on the back would be much better....

It was accused, I arrested it

was it on the frontside of her shirt?

If it was on her rack its a ydi for sure

Very poor judgment... it is one thing if you say "hey there's a spider there, you want me to brush it off?"

You should have told her... she could have brushed it off herself, or she would have asked you to. YDI.

Maybe OP didn't want to tell her because he didn't want to deal with a screaming woman

Or she would have completely freaked out about it

YDI No good deed goes unpunished. Remember that next time.