Today, I was fired from my dream job for being pregnant. Apparently, you can't teach children while growing one inside you. FML
mrsmahdi
San Francisco, United States
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mrsmahdi 12
They fired me in a clever way by telling me they didn't have anything for me to teach and that me going on maternity leave was too hard on the students I had so someone else was doing my classes. So I was not officially fired so much as pushed out and replaced
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Yazoo77 16
HR then court. You can't be fired for being pregnant as a teacher.
kingcaper817 14
That's incredibly stupid. I'm sure you'll find a better job in not time. Good luck with the baby. I'm sure you'll be an amazing mother.
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kingcaper817 14
That's incredibly stupid. I'm sure you'll find a better job in not time. Good luck with the baby. I'm sure you'll be an amazing mother.
smokecloud_ 37
It's not only incredibly stupid, it's incredibly illegal. I don't like to jump on the "SUE THEM!!!!1!!!1!" bandwagon, but OP should consider it.
trollcrusher 17
I can't imagine that they have the legal right to fire you for that, unless you were employed under some really unusual agreement. Try reading over your employment contract and finding some sort of damning statement, showing that you were guaranteed maternity leave (I would reasonably assume that you were, or this wouldn't be much of an FML). Hopefully you could arrange for some sort of compensation for what they've done. All that aside, congratulations on your baby!
leogachi 15
@75 There doesn't need to be a maternity agreement in an employee contract. Maternity leave is a right granted by federal law.
trollcrusher 17
@93 Thank you, I was pretty sure that was the case, but after hearing this, I wasn't very sure at all. But if they blatantly broke the law and caused needless financial hardship for OP, I certainly hope justice finds them.
unwantedforlife 14
Actually, most private/religious schools have the right to fire pregnant women if they are unmarried because it goes against their fundamental beliefs. I don't agree with this reasoning but it's the only legal way I can see this happening
okokalright 15
I agree, this is definitely illegal. You know how many teachers i have had (or have seen around school) growing up that were pregnant? Quite a lot. And they were never fired. I have seen teachers that seemed to be 6-7 months pregnant and they would just take up to a year off while a sub covered them. And it never harmed their job
32RH 10
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Materny leave?
IAmzephyr 22
Thats exactly what the school didn't want to deal with
Steve95401 49
How about "maternity" leave?
DoomSkuller 28
HUGE difference between maternity leave and being fired...
kilarbos 14
I don't think America allows maternity leave.
shannon.elizabeth 13
yes we do we aren't heathens
nesteremily 31
You can likely sue for that. Unless you aren't married, then that could be a valid reason as they want a "good influence" teaching their children. Some teachers contracts actually have a section that says they will be terminated if they get pregnant and aren't married. Good luck OP!
MrConcise 35
That's still not a good reason. Traditional family values are overrated.
countryb_cth 38
Even though its not a good reason christian schools can and have fired women for that reason.
Hyenayena 27
This counts as discrimination. File a lawsuit, op. Pregnancy discrimination is a real issue
The_Basileus 9
Can they actually do that in the US? Just wow.
MrConcise 35
Private schools can and should be able to. Public schools cannot. However, just the idea that anybody can be fired for a pregnancy shows the intolerance of surrogate mothers, couples who don't believe in the idea of marriage, and parents who choose to break away from irresponsible partners for the sake of their children. Ludicrous and insane that people still take religion over logic.
chuchusheep 19
i have heard the same thing, #3. except, i see her name has Mrs in it. in which case thats probably illegal what her employer did.
nesteremily 31
Ah, I didn't see the Mrs. In that case yes definitely illegal. And public schools can terminate employment if it says in your contract. My mother was a teacher and it was in hers
MrConcise 35
That's an illegal contract, IIRC. Plenty of contracts have illegal clauses that go unnoticed because it scares the people who sign them into thinking the employer is justified in doing what they write into it.
kirasant 19
Religious schools will also fire pregnant women if they got pregnant through in-vitro. (Cus Jesus wanted people that broke the rules to be thrown out. All those parts of the bible that showed him doing the opposite doesn't count.) *sigh* Some religious people would be a lot easier to deal with if they read the book.
arrowgold 19
As discriminatory as it sounds it is true. There is a moral clause in our contract, and many things can fall under it.
MrConcise 35
Nothing about starting a family with her husband violates a morality clause. Plain and simple, they just don't like what she's done.
jude_iscariot 7
Not at a public school. At a public school, she'd still be fine in suing. At a private school, yeah, they might be able to claim she's a bad influence and it's immoral or something dumb like that.
bapbap_fml 15
Where I live that would still be illegal and you'd get sued for sure!
Yazoo77 16
HR then court. You can't be fired for being pregnant as a teacher.
chosha_fml 27
Depends. If you're single and working for a private religious school, it might be in your contract as dismissible. Stupid, but possible.
chazzywazzy654 22
Her username says Mrs, which suggests she is married
smackaroonial 20
Also, it depends on the country she's in. I'm sure other countries have some messed up laws.
Yazoo77 16
It says USA.
daemonsparta 16
#92 she's in California
smackaroonial 20
Ah so it does. That's what I get for glancing!
ManicGypsy 22
Unless the father is a student?
Korpz13 16
Exactly, I am sure that by firing someone at work for being pregnant shouldn't be allowed.
NakuEh 27
I'm guessing OP is married since her name has Mrs. instead of Ms. If that is the case I don't think that is legal and you should look into it.
gassymomma 4
I had this happen to a friend. She was at a Catholic school and engaged, but they forced her out because it was out of wedlock. I hope you can find a new job that you love even more.
MidnaLink 35
Isn't that wedlock thing only if the baby is born?
littlekellilee 45
The idea is that she had intercourse before marriage, which would have happened around 9 months before the baby was born.
MandieL 27
So I wonder what happens when a teacher at that school gets divorced. I guess if it is written in their contract then whatever, but otherwise it is illegal to fire someone based on race, age, sexual orientation, marriage status. It's discrimination, clean and clear.
jude_iscariot 7
Well, sure, but you also can't get an abortion if you teach at a Catholic school. That'll also get you fired.
MandieL 27
If abortion isn't illegal then it's none of the schools business of someone gets one or not. How could they prove it happened? And unless it is in their contract, they wouldn't be able to fire hem for it.
bapbap_fml 15
How would they know though?
nutellacake 12
I'm sorry but that's just sick. You can fire someone becase they got pregnant in normal parts of the world, is this really what america is?
whysobeachy 37
Look at it this way: If they think pregnant women can't work, is working with them still such a wonderful prospect?
HUGBUG 23
Your boss should be the one being taught
mustangbravo 27
That sounds so ridiculous. I would definitely look into some legal action.
StiffPvtParts 43
I'd I'm not mistaken, It's actually illegal for them to fire you just for being pregnant. they're required to grant you a maternity leave.
MandieL 27
Only 12 weeks mat leave, but by the sounds of it, OP is pregnant so firing her for being pregnant is illegal, she can be let go if she does not return from her mat leave but that's it.
BlameTheOwls 14
A lot of Catholic schools have in their teacher's contracts that they must uphold the teachings of the church. So no sex outside marriage, no being gay, etc.
IAmzephyr 22
you are correct unless your contract says otherwise, or sometimes they're real slick and find a stupid unrelated reason that technically justifies termination
mrsmahdi 12
It's maternity leave for good. They said I could re apply in a few years
MandieL 27
Can they legally do this though?