By Eak - 13/10/2018 02:10
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He sounds jealous and controlling... Be careful with him, he could become abusive
There are three red flags here. First, the jealousy. That's not good, not at all, especially with something as unreasonable as this. Second flag- he either got rid of your things without permission or he bullied you into letting him throw them out. Third flag, "allowed". Sweetheart, if he's not allowing you to do something that is incredibly controlling. You do not need PERMISSION from him to keep your private property! You don't need permission from him at ALL, not for ANYTHING! This post is so, so concerning. Please look into emotional and psychological abuse, because even though this is a short post, there's way too much badness. Abuse is never your fault. Nothing justifies being treated this way, absolutely nothing. Please be safe.
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He sounds jealous and controlling... Be careful with him, he could become abusive
There are three red flags here. First, the jealousy. That's not good, not at all, especially with something as unreasonable as this. Second flag- he either got rid of your things without permission or he bullied you into letting him throw them out. Third flag, "allowed". Sweetheart, if he's not allowing you to do something that is incredibly controlling. You do not need PERMISSION from him to keep your private property! You don't need permission from him at ALL, not for ANYTHING! This post is so, so concerning. Please look into emotional and psychological abuse, because even though this is a short post, there's way too much badness. Abuse is never your fault. Nothing justifies being treated this way, absolutely nothing. Please be safe.