Intimacy: Today, my wife of 12 years informed me that the only sexual activity...

By tigger2013 - 03/08/2013 04:01 - Australia - Cheltenham

Today, my wife of 12 years informed me that the only sexual activity she is interested in is foreplay, and she absolutely doesn't want to go any further than that anymore. FML

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Same thing different taste

By beaverless - 02/05/2011 20:26 - United States

Today, my girlfriend kindly broke the news to me that she doesn't want to take part in any sexual activity anymore because it's getting too boring. FML

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You deserved it 17 611

Permission granted and rejected

By Anonymous - 28/09/2023 04:00

Today, my wife lost interest in sex a long time ago. I’ve tried to reignite her interest lately, which culminated in an argument where she gave me permission to go out and shag other women. We might as well divorce at this point if she’s going to say things like that. FML

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You deserved it 145

Stuck in a rut

By Anonymous - 16/04/2020 20:00

Today, I realised my wife has been slowly phasing out most elements of our previously active and inventive sex life. These days, it's missionary once a month or she tells me to whack one off by myself in the bathroom. When did we get so boring? FML

I agree, your life sucks 2 171

You deserved it 343

Hang ups

By at least put on sexy underwear - 01/09/2023 20:00

Today, my girlfriend complained that we never have sex anymore. The only way she ever wants sex is missionary, with barely any foreplay. When I asked if we could spice things up and mentioned a few simple ideas, she said the conversation was making her uncomfortable and changed the subject. FML

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You deserved it 136

Don't give up

By Frustrated - 24/08/2025 13:00 - United States

Today, my wife complained that our sex life is too boring and vanilla. I have spent the last two years suggesting ideas to keep it interesting: S&M, swinging, roleplay, cosplay, public play, new toys, you name it. All I ever hear is, "Eww you pervert, that is disgusting and sick, how dare you even mention that." FML

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You deserved it 112

Stuck on amber

By Anonymous - 01/10/2020 07:58 - United States - Greensburg

Today, my wife and mother of my kids said she doesn't want sex. Or a divorce. FML

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You deserved it 215

Alexa, play "Boredom" by Buzzcocks

By Anonymous - 24/12/2021 05:01

Today, I had to have the awkward conversation with my wife of 20-plus years that the reason I’ve lost interest in sex is because our sex life has been mind numbingly boring for at least 15 of those years, always the same positions, never wanting to try anything new, just so boring. FML

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You deserved it 1 462

Mystery shutdown

By Anonymous - 29/12/2024 19:00 - United Kingdom

Today, my wife always told me she loved sex too much to ever give it up. I don’t know what’s happened recently but she’s now angry for no reason, bitter at the world, makes me suffer just for existing, and yes, she’s cancelled all intimacy and sex for the foreseeable future. FML

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You deserved it 165

By Uhg - 10/03/2019 02:00

Today, my spouse made it clear that they would rather play video games than be intimate with me. I've tried everything, but get nothing. FML

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You deserved it 419

Take care

By Anonymous - 16/12/2020 08:02

Today, after close to 10 years of marriage, my wife’s health has improved enough she is craving sex again. Just not with me. FML

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You deserved it 141

pdp_fml 21

Saturday 3 August 2013 12:31

Doesn't foreplay lead to sex? Please try to warm her up for about 30 minutes and see what happens after that. I think that you will score.

logankyng 15

Saturday 3 August 2013 12:27

Stuff like that is the reason I'm unmarried and content

Comments

Garnetshaddow 30

Sunday 4 August 2013 2:56

Remind your wife that ******** count as foreplay!

rogerover 19

Sunday 4 August 2013 3:47

Everything but vaginal intercourse is foreplay. Go with it!

Inuyasha843 12

Sunday 4 August 2013 5:29

Don't feel bad I'm in the same boat

YepThatsMeee 23

Sunday 4 August 2013 8:00

No, then YOU should feel bad too. And if sex matters to you, do something about it. Apart from whining on FML.

Poetaster 10

Sunday 4 August 2013 6:14

Is she willing to consider aft play?

Poetaster 10

Sunday 4 August 2013 6:16

Also... Do not argue with her; Dicker.

HeartOfLead 24

Sunday 4 August 2013 7:06

Now that's a dilemma, foreplay sounds nice and all, but 'a wet bathtub should always be easy to slip in.'

PapaSmurffolks 7

Sunday 4 August 2013 7:10

Time do some eating at the Y! She will change her mind...

moore829 6

Sunday 4 August 2013 8:26

wow... I think she must be related to my ex!

btenney13 4

Sunday 4 August 2013 11:10

Might be sneakin behind you homie

jagott 4

Sunday 4 August 2013 12:18

Hard to decide if FML or YDI. If OP's wife doesn't want sex anymore because OP is "Mr. 2 Thrusts" who only cares about his own pleasure once inside then YDI and I don't blame the woman. If OP is a great lover who cares about his partner's pleasure and makes sure everyone involved leaves satisfied then FML.