By Lokiara - 26/12/2014 06:18 - United States

Today, I told my father I'm going to a club with a friend and staying the night at my friend's place. He asked for my friend's name, number, and address so he knows where I'll be. I'm 30 years old. FML
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Lokiara tells us more.

I'm OP. No, I do not live at home. I haven't lived at home in 5 years. I currently live in a different country and I am in my home country for the holidays. I preemptively tell my parents where I go because they tend to ask that question when I leave the house. It might be the fact that I am female, but I don't really know for certain.

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dragoongirl90 34

"His house, his rules" only applies if she has no choice but to be there. She came home to spend time with them for the holiday. And she is not his "little girl" anymore. She'll always be his daughter but she is not some helpless little kid anymore. 30 is way too old for parents to treat their offspring this way.

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TwinkyRocket420 6

Be lucky you have a father that cares that much! I'd kill to just have a father.

lifes_surprises 11

why were you telling him then? if you felt the need tho tell him then maybe he needs to treat you like that.

FYL OP, my parents used to do that to me all the time. I feel your pain.

quarterbird 18

I'm an adult male and I volunteer that information... Especially if it's a first date. I give my family the woman's name, number, address (if we've gotten that far), date location and what time I plan to get back to my house. It's a crazy world out there. You could be mugged, murdered or you could be involved in an accident on your way to or from your date. If you end up in a ditch somewhere and need help... It's better to have someone know that you're actually missing than your disappearance go unnoticed. I'm not trying to be morbid... just practical.

I use to have this everytime ..although i m not 30 :p

That's what you get for being a 30 year old who still lives with their parents.

rocker_chick23 27

She isn't living with them. Learn to read the ******* follow up. She is visiting them for Christmas since she lives half way around the world

#82 I can't wait till the dynamic duo of karma and the economy land you in that exact situation. Maybe you'll learn not to judge others.

no matter how old you are no one wants whats best for you more then your parents. respect his wishes and youll be thanking him later other wise if your old enough move out op. plain and simple.

rocker_chick23 27

She has moved out. From Lokiara. I'm OP. No, I do not live at home. I haven't lived at home in 5 years. I currently live in a different country and I am in my home country for the holidays. I preemptively tell my parents where I go because they tend to ask that question when I leave the house. It might be the fact that I am female, but I don't really know for certain.

YDI for still living with your dad at 30.

rocker_chick23 27

OP doesn't. Read the follow up.

YDI if you live at home at the age of 30, or FYL if he's being nosy.