By Suunflower_14 - 26/08/2013 21:18 - United States - Gilbert
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Just wanted to confirm some questions here. I'm gonna be getting a restraining order here soon. He still tries to talk me at work (we work at the same coffee shop, what a coincidence) and I do my best to ignore him. He creeps me out actually very much so and he constantly is bugging me. The guy is weird, but in a way I feel bad for him because he's always been an outcast and doesn't really understand how to have friends. Anyways, I should be starting my college classes soon too so I can focus on school and not so much... Him.. Too bad he's probably a kidnapper. Thanks for the... lovely comments guys.
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But you can get one for stalking, and if he's been taking pictures of her without her knowledge for over a decade, he's definitely been stalking her. What he's been doing is incredibly creepy, and the OP is perfectly within her rights to file a restraining order against a guy who has been stalking her for years.
wait a moment people, we don't know how old HE is and if they knew each other or not, all she is saying is that she found out now that he had (and has) a crush on her. Totally different context him being near her age and know her since school, than him being a 40 year old man...
She also said He has been collecting them not taking them. Which may mean like school photo ops or sports photos instead of hiding in the bushes and secretly taking them while she is in the shower. The previous is creepy but kind of sweet. And is not at all like having a tribute of op in his closet made of old bubble gum.
52, that doesn't make it any less creepy. It still means that he went out of his way to find pictures of her and save them. It's not at all sweet. Imagine if a guy had gone out of his way to collect any pictures he could get his hands on of your sister/daughter/niece/cousin/close friend. Would you still try to convince them that is romantic? Would YOU still think that it's romantic? Personally, I'd be pretty freakin alarmed. It doesn't matter how you try to spin it, what he did qualifies as stalking. It's one thing to have a crush on someone, but to go out of your way to get/take pictures of ANYONE for over a decade is fucking creepy. I had a crush on a guy for like 4 years, but I didn't do ANYTHING similar to this. It's weird and obsessive.
I bet the poor guy is just a romantic and has been planning the big reveal for years. He probably built it up as this huge love story in his mind... I don't know, his intentions might have been good. From a general point of view it's creepy, but maybe he's not crazy! I don't remember what movie it was, but there was a similar situation going on, except it was built up to be cute. It wasn't until long after the scene that u had realized that, out of context, it was a little creepy. What I'm saying is the guy might have built it up to be like that movie, not taking the whole picture into perspective.
Pics or it didn't happen! Wait.... Something tells me that's a bit inappropriate to say in this case....
Wow, 15 years and counting. Just think about his level of commitment and see how it goes? Unless he was that creepy kid who was always staring and has a piece of your hair in a shrine like Helga.