Today, as I was taking a time out to decompress after a fight with my boyfriend, I woke up from a nap to discover him making plans to move me and our cats back to New York. I moved over 1300 miles to be here and we own a house together. Today is our anniversary. FML
Hey, im the OP!
i finally got an fml posted. this might be a bit long.
my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. he moved down here to work in the oil industry and i had followed suit about 8 months later.
i suffer from depression and anxiety, moving away from my support system back home was hard but i also left behind a toxic home environment so that was a plus.
the thing that bothered me the most was that when i excused myself to calm down so i could come back and talk it out; i found that he took it upon itself to discuss a plan to send me back and our relationship issues with his friend which hurt.
we dont fight all that often and we have discussed counseling in the past. i guess it was just a shock that he went to the most extreme option first.
my cats are doing well to those who asked