Today, I felt so rejected by my wife that I can't help myself but feel like shit. She has bipolar, is on medication, yet she makes me feel so little that emotionally and physically that I've started to feel like a failure. No intimacy, shitty behaviour, complaining all the time. Man, I wish I could end it all. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I really tried to talk to my wife how I feel that she hates me and is with me out of pity. She denied it all but by the end of the conversation mentioned she wants a divorce. FML
Today, I found out that my kids hate and are actively ignoring me; my wife is bipolar and she swears she hates me too after over 20 years of marriage, and my job sucks the life out of me every single day. FML
Today, as usual, 90% of my interactions with my wife consist of her angrily ranting and complaining about things I can't control, like the weather, traffic, her son's dad, her insurance, etc. She never initiates any sort of affection and doesn't care about my needs, then wonders why I'm so depressed. FML
Today, I fucked up. I let my mental health problems and the alcohol win. I was horrible to my wife and basically ended my marriage due to my problems and insecurities. FML
Today, I realized I hate my wife with a fiery passion. I honestly don’t even care. FML
Today, my wife lost her patience with her aunt but because she can't say anything to her, she takes it out on me. Then she also blames everything on me, in that I didn't do enough to make it stop. I went against my family and relatives to be with this woman, but I get treated as a dog. FML
Today, I was told I should try treating my wife the way she treats me when I seek out her affection, so she can see how bad it hurts. Not only could I never do that to her, but that would require her attempting to show me even the simplest form of affection. FML
Today, I have a family but I just feel all alone and unloved, almost on the verge of depression. I just wanna cry. My wife is always threatening me with divorce and says she can’t stand the sight of me, and my son hates me. I just wanna feel like somebody is there for me and that I can lean on someone else. FML
Today, my wife told me how she really felt about me, and said she didn't love me anymore. We got married last month. FML
Today, I realized how toxic and controlling my wife is. She left to go on a vacation, and I'm so used to her micromanaging everything I do that I'm completely unable to function. I tried to play a video game and had a panic attack because I imagined her walking in and screaming at me. FML
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DLBL 23
Divorce is called for in this case. It's not your fault.
SAgirl 23
I have a friend that is severely bipolar, but when he is in a bad episode he does not use it as an excuse to take it out on the people around him. Your wife honesty sounds horrible. If you don't see aq future with her please get a divorce. Don't put yourself through this abuse just because you feel bad about leaving. You deserve better.
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unashamedfemale 9
after dealing with my bipolar grandma, who was not in my life until she couldn’t take care of herself anymore (her choice, not mine), I vowed that I would never give someone with bipolar a chance. it’s not worth it and will never get better. get out!!!
SAgirl 23
I have a friend that is severely bipolar, but when he is in a bad episode he does not use it as an excuse to take it out on the people around him. Your wife honesty sounds horrible. If you don't see aq future with her please get a divorce. Don't put yourself through this abuse just because you feel bad about leaving. You deserve better.
DLBL 23
Divorce is called for in this case. It's not your fault.
Hangryko 32
File for divorce immediately. Call 988 from somewhere safe, tell them what's going on and what she's doing to you mentally.