By RipperoniPizza - 22/03/2018 23:50

Today, my best friend, who I've had a crush on for over 2 years, and who I could describe as unattainable, asked me out on a date. It went great and ended with an amazing kiss. Then she texted that she thinks she actually likes girls. She's unattainable, alright. FML
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OP here. I'm pretty surprised this got published, it's my one and only fml that I've ever made. It's actually a pretty long story, we've kinda both had a thing for each other and actually dated for a very brief time before (never kissed though hence the "amazing" first kiss between us) but she didn't think she was comfortable and decided that maybe we should just stay friends. I was perfectly ok with that, but then she asked me out on the date and I thought that maybe she was actually ready this time. Nope! However, things are definitely confusing as she has started flirting with me again so it's kind of seeming like she might be interested again. I still have feelings for her and I probably always will, but I'm not wanting to play games anymore. Also, as for her change in sexuality, whether it's permanent for a "phase" or whatever, I definitely won't ruin her reputation or anything, like I said, it's my best friend that I would do a lot for. Some of these comments are great too! Thanks

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JustALesbian 16

I don't have an opinion on this OP, I realized I was lesbian during a date with a guy and tried to say something to him but he ended up ruining my reputation by spreading rumors. Just be happy you didn't get too attached

CrazyTrainWreck 19

Well I guess she prefers tacos over hotdogs.

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OP here. I'm pretty surprised this got published, it's my one and only fml that I've ever made. It's actually a pretty long story, we've kinda both had a thing for each other and actually dated for a very brief time before (never kissed though hence the "amazing" first kiss between us) but she didn't think she was comfortable and decided that maybe we should just stay friends. I was perfectly ok with that, but then she asked me out on the date and I thought that maybe she was actually ready this time. Nope! However, things are definitely confusing as she has started flirting with me again so it's kind of seeming like she might be interested again. I still have feelings for her and I probably always will, but I'm not wanting to play games anymore. Also, as for her change in sexuality, whether it's permanent for a "phase" or whatever, I definitely won't ruin her reputation or anything, like I said, it's my best friend that I would do a lot for. Some of these comments are great too! Thanks

Props to you for knowing your emotional boundaries and still being supportive of your friend. Not everyone would handle this situation so maturely. Also, my money’s on her being bisexual. I say this because I went through a similar phase where I realized I was attracted to girls and not a male friend of mine, and wondered if I was a lesbian. Turns out I just wasn’t into the friend, and I tend to lean more towards girl ‘crushes’ than guy ones. Sexuality is very nuanced. Takes a while to figure that shit out. Anyway, my point is that she very well may not be deliberately playing mind games with you. But all the same you’re 100% right to not let your feelings be toyed with, deliberately or not. So the supportive friend route is the way to go. Good on you.

MaxLegroom 3

Reading this, I keep hearing this song that goes"Will you and your friend come around? And are you and your friend gonna get on down?"

tounces7 27

I guess I don't understand the issue here - I mean, she could like girls AND guys, no? I didn't see it say "She ONLY likes girls".

The implication is "I like girls and therefore am not interested in you after all."