How can she respect your hoodie?

Ten bucks says that the second text was from a manipulative boyfriend who got hold of her phone and didn't want her texting you.

It's in the unspoken relationship rules that girls receive ownership of all hoodies and sweatshirts while you're dating, and once they leave your house it's gone for good.

This could be an FML on its own but I used to have a hoodie from my alma mater that was super oversized (bc honestly you don’t need a man in your life to to have a big comfy hoodie lol) My ex took it when I broke up with him and I found out later that he would wear it and tell people that he went to that college (he very much did not)To those saying that women always get custody of hoodies..it can happen the other way around.

First, she texts you about an old hoodie and then she wants no more contact with you without even giving your hoodie back ? Is that what happened ?