By New stay at home mom - 08/02/2019 04:00
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Sorry, I don't think he should have yelled at you but I have sympathy for him as well. Your screen name is "new stay at home mom". He may have taken night shift because it pays more so that you can stay home with the kids. Also, he wasn't taking a nap. He was getting his required rest just as you do at night while he is awake and working. Start scheduling activities with the kids during his normal sleep time. Take them to the park, an indoor playground, arrange play-dates with other moms, etc. Try to have a little sympathy for his situation. Especially if he took the shift to allow you to be able to be a stay at home mom. Many moms would love to be in your shoes, but have to work outside the home because they can't afford to live on one income. It is hard to work a third shift job while everyone around you is living a first shift life. I have done it myself over the years and it is not fun.
Tell him to wear earplugs.
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I'm nowhere near your situation, therefore I'm not going to attempt giving any form of advice nor blame, OP I'm just wishing the best for you. You are a strong person, you know, keep it up, friend.
My ex used to pull crap like that - one of the many reasons he is my ex. If he cant sleep through the extra noise of toddlers, then he has no business taking a night shift.