Did he explicitly jerk off instead of having sex with you? Or are you just insecure after finding out what his jerk-material is? Just curious, two very different scenarios lol

Sometimes men (or women) just want to have a quick jerk without "the hassle" (foreplay, pleasing the partner as well, etc.) of sex. That's perfectly normal and shouldn't be shamed. If he however turns you down alot and you feel rejected, you should have a serious conversation with him about ways to spike your sex life up. Men aren't always in the mood either and maybe he just needs a different atmosphere, like a romantic evening or some toys? Lots of things you could try together :)

Well, maybe you can try to do things that will get his attention? Spice it up a little?

did you do something to push your husband off ? no offense, but you comment is selfish

Sometimes you just want a quick microwave hot pocket. Doesn't mean you don't love nice, 3 course home-cooked meals, too..

Sometimes people just need to have sex with themself. Alone. It's not a big deal. You need to know how to please yourself before expecting someone else to.

But I bet you'd rather it be a virtual woman than a real one

get over it. dudes jerk off to weird shit 24/7

It's still getting his heart rate up right?

Okay.... I'm sure this is not going to be popular but who cares most of the time the truth hurts..... Have you looked in the mirror? People that get married all of a sudden think " hey this is a key to eat what ever I want". Fun fact....... Baby weight does not last 3 years.

Men these days

The only way I would do that is if my wife gained so much weight that I no longer found her attractive and would be a precursor to her weight loss or our divorce. So OP what are you not telling the E-Crowd...