Today, I realized that my fiancé only touches me when he wants to have sex. Any other contact is purely accidental. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I noticed my new boyfriend barely touches me casually, unless I initiate, and even then he’ll pull away fairly quickly. Apparently his dad told him about "fake rape accusations", even from women you’re dating, so he’s scared to touch me now. FML
Today, I realized that the only time my boyfriend is physically affectionate with me is when he wants to have sex. When I suggested we just cuddle, he looked at me and said, "What’s the point in that?" FML
Today, ever since I let my boyfriend touch my boobs, he thinks it's appropriate to grope me whenever he feels like it. Even talking to him about it doesn't seem to stop him. FML
Today, I told my husband that it makes me feel unattractive and undesirable that I’m the only one to ever initiate intimacy. Not just sex, but also basic affection like hugging and kissing. His response? "Oh." FML
Today, I realized just how clingy my boyfriend is, when he pulled out in the middle of sex, lay down and hugged me, and said in his "adorable" voice that he didn't really want to have sex, but cuddle. I wouldn't mind if it didn't happen so often. FML
Today, I realized my boyfriend uses sex as a way to get me to stop talking. FML
Today, at last, my husband instigated sex for the first time since the honeymoon a few months ago when he started fondling me in bed. Then I realised he was asleep. FML
Today, I realized that my boyfriend will only have sex with me if I am on my stomach and not revealing my face. FML
Today, I was with my boyfriend, and things were getting pretty heated. Trying to be sexy, I told him that every time we touched was a guilty pleasure. He rolled off of me, and said "Oh, you're married too?" FML
Today, I noticed that my long distance boyfriend of almost four months only calls me to have phone sex. FML
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Top comments
Omg_its_Chloe 6
Can't touch this lol. Sorry, had to :)
LeapOfFaith 8
Break up with him and say it was purely accidental.
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Comments (189)
linkinpark98 24
Maybe want to reconsider the whole "fiancé" thing?
GovernorGeneral 8
The moment you realize your comment sucks. Okay. *sad face*
Jennielee 6
Leave him while you can. The situation will not become better only worse. And one day you'll wake up with kids and realize leaving him wont just hurt you and him but your children too. It becomes way more complicated as time goes on. Unaffectionate people are difficult to be married to and you will eventually feel lonely.
swimmer3141 10
Are you having one of those moments #128?
Azrael9 11
Back out while you can! Return the ring and everything because that is not a loving relationship. "Any other contact is purely accidental" Seriously wake up! If someone wants to truly be with you, they wouldn't touch you just for sex. Nobody is forcing you to marry this person.
cherry72 13
Run away. Don't marry him, it will only get worse.
KiddNYC1O 22
You're marrying Al Bundy?
TheFakeAsian 0
Doesn't matter, had sex.
mercsl65 7
doing the same thing repeatedly expecting different results makes you feel crazy
jnaust 8
Get used to it. That's what married life is like for most people.