Today, I realized that the only time my boyfriend is physically affectionate with me is when he wants to have sex. When I suggested we just cuddle, he looked at me and said, "What’s the point in that?" FML
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Today, I realized just how clingy my boyfriend is, when he pulled out in the middle of sex, lay down and hugged me, and said in his "adorable" voice that he didn't really want to have sex, but cuddle. I wouldn't mind if it didn't happen so often. FML
Today, I told my husband that it makes me feel unattractive and undesirable that I’m the only one to ever initiate intimacy. Not just sex, but also basic affection like hugging and kissing. His response? "Oh." FML
Today, I realized that my fiancé only touches me when he wants to have sex. Any other contact is purely accidental. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he’d rather masturbate than have sex with me, and that sex with me is a chore. FML
Today, I asked my boyfriend why we never have sex anymore. He said, "Honestly, you lie there with your arms balled up against your chest, you don't moan or give any indication that you're enjoying things. It makes me really uncomfortable." FML
Today, my boyfriend asked why I’ve been so grumpy lately. When I told him it’s because our relationship has been severely lacking in intimacy, he sighed heavily and said, “Ugh, fine, let’s just get it over with!” Gee, thanks babe. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me that he’s no longer interested in sex with me, as he just can't be bothered. FML
Today, I talked to my husband about his lack of interest in sex. Apparently his definition is polar to mine; his is along the lines of cuddling. Not only did I wait until marriage to have sex with this man, apparently he prefers a permanent roommate without benefits. FML
Today, my boyfriend would rather jerk off than have sex with me. Even if I'm next to him in bed. FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend of over a year has been cheating on me the whole time, but that "it's just physical". However, he doesn't want to do anything "physical" with me, except cuddle when we're together. FML
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404wan 19
Sounds like you dont have a boyfriend, you have a **** buddy. If you want to be with someone on an affectionate level (like most people) dump the douche and find someone who actually likes you and wants to be with you. You dont owe this guy anything, and i dont say this often, but he will not make you happy and you do deserve to be. Break up with him.
ROJJ86 4
It is possible you are with someone who is scared of commitment. Run. Far and Fast. They do not change.
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ROJJ86 4
It is possible you are with someone who is scared of commitment. Run. Far and Fast. They do not change.
404wan 19
Sounds like you dont have a boyfriend, you have a **** buddy. If you want to be with someone on an affectionate level (like most people) dump the douche and find someone who actually likes you and wants to be with you. You dont owe this guy anything, and i dont say this often, but he will not make you happy and you do deserve to be. Break up with him.
Miss_Red 18
i agree. it seems to me that he doesnt see OP as a person, but someone just to get sexual gratification from. Committed relationships need that component of nurturing and love (usually, im not about to speak for all of them).
Alvin Lau 3
can it be both? O_O hmmm But..... sorry to hear that. that hurts... O_O emotionally.
AmbrosiaFan 19
Welcome to most married women's lives... Sometimes we just want to cuddle, they don't think there's a point to that.
RichardPencil 32
You get the cuddles after sex. Just cuddling will just make a healthy man horny. If he doesn't get horny, either he's sick or not that into you.
bluejello2001 18
And? So what if he gets horny? Maybe cuddles will lead to sex. If not, dude can either just let it be, or deal with it himself. If you don't know how to be close or intimate with your partner without having sex, **** your partner's life.
jbuckets_404 39
But what if I instead prefer to **** my partner's wife??? ;-) [/s]
alycion 39
I’m not a cuddler. I do understand why some do enjoy it though. And if my partner had an easy to fill need, I’d work on meeting it. Even if it makes me a bit uncomfortable.
acmariner99 25
That really is a terrible FML. Cuddles are amazing.
riley873 21
A. check out the pod cast 'The Read' where their motto is BREAK UP WITH HIM/HER/THEM 2. BREAK UP WITH HIM
DogStew 20
Congratulations! You have accepted a life as a piece of ass.