Today, I found out the weekly coffee talks my husband was having with his ex-girlfriend stopped involving coffee about 2 years ago. FML
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Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
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Today, I found out that my ex-husband just had a baby with his new partner. We only split up a week ago. FML
Today, I had a long talk with my now ex-boyfriend. I explained why I'm not comfortable with him bringing up his new female coworker multiple times a day, talking with her about their kinks and fetishes, or possibly being around her outside of work. We've been together for nine years. He's only known her for a week. FML
Today, I was sick and tired of my husband talking to his female friend from high school all the time. They reconnected after 7 years and have been talking non-stop day and night, to the point of neglecting the marriage. I told him it was either me or her. He took off his ring and kicked me out of our house. FML
Today, I went on a coffee date with the man I've been in love with for a while. Before I knew what was going on, he'd started chatting up a pretty girl sitting nearby. I had to drink my coffee alone while he got her number. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had been debating leaving me for an old boyfriend from high school. They rekindled their relationship on Facebook, and talking on the cell phone. Both things I insisted she have. FML
Today, I found out my husband has been sleeping with one of the women in our marriage counselling group. FML
Today, I went on a coffee date with a guy I'm interested in. He picked up his phone mid-date to finalize dinner plans with another girl. FML
Today, my husband decided to start seeing other people. I found out when I called and interrupted his date. FML
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silencerider151 0
It took you how many years to realize that private meetings between him and his ex could be a problem?
mari3644 0
Why was he even having "talks" with his ex girlfriend??
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Comments (128)
InstaKarma 0
ha ha ha #11 FTW But OP I would say FYL not because he cheated, but because you don't know how to have enough self respect to say NO to two years of weekly "coffee" with his ex.
jamie_sd 0
They switched to tea?!?
FreeFall11 0
lol, good one
biteyourtongue 0
Okay. Being on good terms with an ex is fine. Weekly private meetings is not.
youthink_fml 0
Every week? Not with you? Trust is one thing. This is just stupid on your part. YDI.
GodOfBeer 5
she doesn't deserve it, although she has a small part of guilt - should have put her foot down on these meetings (which have been going on for more that 2 yrs it seems). must be true that a very small dose of jealousy is healthy in a relationship...
GodOfBeer 5
people are assholes...;-)
TheTruth1428 0
The YDI here isn't that she was cheated on, it was that she was so naive that she didn't see something was going on right in front of her face and she was letting it happen. No one deserves to be cheated on, I don't think anyone here is saying that, but some responsibility has to be taken for ignoring the signs that something could be happening. If one person in a household was the one responsible for the checking account and each week they noticed $100 was missing but said nothing, then 2+ years later, they found out their spouse was spending it on something harmful, you're not going to sit back and say that person wasn't at fault when they noticed it for years and said nothing now are you?
LilaBear 2
TheTruth1428 - there is a difference between the OP's story and your analogy. In your analogy, the person sees that there is money missing but doesn't try to find out what's happening to it. In the OP's story, she saw her husband was going out but she THOUGHT she knew what was happening - that they were just having coffee. When obviously they weren't. So to make your analogy more accurate, it would be like saying someone responsible for the checking account sees $100 go missing every week, asks the partner why, the partner says it's to pay off the car loan when really they're spending it on booze. THAT is the more accurate analogy, because the person responsible for the checking account (the equivalent of the OP) HAS tried to find out what is happening, but the other person lied.
owlsong 0
some responsibility has to be taken for ignoring the signs that something could be happening. how does that even make sense? her noticing doesn't negate his offense - whether she knew about it or not, he still cheated. she has no "responsibility" in that sense because, being her husband, he's kind of under legal obligation to NOT cheat and be a dickface and she is supposed to feel safe in trusting him - so he's doing everything wrong and she's doing everything right - she has no fault in this.
catastrophicsock 0
To still be friends with your ex is one thing and is okay. But to go out weekly for "coffee talks" is a complete other. How could you ever just blindly let him do that? Are you stupid!?
Icutu7 0
pics or it didnt happen
Rayn4u_fml 0
Since it took you two years to realise something that obvious; may I ask how you finally found out?
LemonStarship 5
Coffee talks don't last that long... should've had a clue
JediScum 1
Neither did her husband apparently.
hk_fml 9
I'm confused as to why you just let him go on coffee dates with one of his ex girlfriends O_o I mean, it's fine to be on good terms with an ex, it's just not okay to be seeing them every week for coffee when you have a wife. I dont want to say you deserve it because no one deserves to be cheated on, but you should have probably known better. At least now you know what a scumbag he is and you should throw him away!
Titans_Matt 0
Hold up.....you let him go out of "coffee talks" with his ex girlfriend for 2 years....Honestly where in your mind did you think that was a good idea. That was stupid and you totally deserve it for that.