Today, I found out the weekly coffee talks my husband was having with his ex-girlfriend stopped involving coffee about 2 years ago. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
Today, I found out that my wife is seeing a marriage counselor. With her ex. FML
Today, I found out that my ex-husband just had a baby with his new partner. We only split up a week ago. FML
Today, I had a long talk with my now ex-boyfriend. I explained why I'm not comfortable with him bringing up his new female coworker multiple times a day, talking with her about their kinks and fetishes, or possibly being around her outside of work. We've been together for nine years. He's only known her for a week. FML
Today, I was sick and tired of my husband talking to his female friend from high school all the time. They reconnected after 7 years and have been talking non-stop day and night, to the point of neglecting the marriage. I told him it was either me or her. He took off his ring and kicked me out of our house. FML
Today, I went on a coffee date with the man I've been in love with for a while. Before I knew what was going on, he'd started chatting up a pretty girl sitting nearby. I had to drink my coffee alone while he got her number. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had been debating leaving me for an old boyfriend from high school. They rekindled their relationship on Facebook, and talking on the cell phone. Both things I insisted she have. FML
Today, I found out my husband has been sleeping with one of the women in our marriage counselling group. FML
Today, I went on a coffee date with a guy I'm interested in. He picked up his phone mid-date to finalize dinner plans with another girl. FML
Today, my husband decided to start seeing other people. I found out when I called and interrupted his date. FML
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silencerider151 0
It took you how many years to realize that private meetings between him and his ex could be a problem?
mari3644 0
Why was he even having "talks" with his ex girlfriend??
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Comments (128)
silencerider151 0
It took you how many years to realize that private meetings between him and his ex could be a problem?
obnum 19
Yea I mean maybe they ended up staying friends, but come on at least check on them every once in a while... It would just sound suspicious to me. Though still FYL because he abused your trust :(
mari3644 0
Why was he even having "talks" with his ex girlfriend??
noclevername 0
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... Because it's someone you've gotten to know well and value, and that doesn't disappear just because you're not going out anymore. I don't see why everyone's giving the OP a hard time, real people don't freak out just because their partner has a good friend they used to have sex with.
amy397123 0
#69, did you not read the FML? I Quote, " Stopped involving coffee about two years ago" Means that her husband had been rooting his ex for two years. Dipshit. @OP, Were you not even a tad suspicious? I mean 'Coffee Talk' just sounds dodgey.
kawaiixwolf 0
ya i mean really... i so wouldnt let mine do that! lol YDI for letting him o:
dill91 0
Hahahahahaha I agree with #1 Why the heck would you allow him to go talk to his ex weekly for over two years?!?!?!
myfriend_youfail 3
I'm still on relative good terms with one of my ex-boyfriends from high school. We are not romantically interested in each other at all now...I love him as I love my own brother. My current boyfriend has no problem with the two of us hanging out when I visit my hometown. People don't HAVE to cut off all ties to every ex they've ever had, you know. Obviously the OP's husband is a jackass for abusing his wife's trust, but not all of us are ******/manwhores who cheat with past lovers. That being said.....FYL for being used and cheated on, OP.
T1A2Z3 35
I'm on good terms with my ex too... we text and if I'm having a few people over I'd have him too. He gets on very well with my current boyfriend. However I would find it very weird to go out with him alone... I think my boyfriend would find it very weird too. I don't understand how the OP was okay with weekly meetings...
myfriend_youfail 3
Though, I do admit that a weekly meeting sounds a bit suspicious. Maybe a few times a month if they're very close friends, but every week?
lotusflower007 0
yeah you should be able to interact with the oppositie sex, and keep on good terms with an ex, and be okay with a visit here and there. BUT a weekly coffee visit... right away that sends Red Flags. I'm Sorry OP that he violated and disrespected your trust like that. Start Divorce proceedings.
ariena 0
> Maybe a few times a month if they're very close friends, but every week? A few times a month is weekly.
LilaBear 2
myfriend_youfail - there is a difference between catching up with an ex whenever you go back to your hometown, and having a coffee date with them every week.
C_rex20 0
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SO NOW THEY JUST TALK??????? LOL!!!!....... 2 YRS N YEAH REALLY U STILL LET HIM SEE HIS EX WEEKLY? UMMM
turdburgers 0
HURRR DURR
emseeaich 0
people like you make me mad
fatraptorjesus13 9
I think it's trying to communicate with us...
patrickdamoose 5
Oh lord. People like you make me sick, terrible grammar, all caps, not even full words written. Are you twelve? Please gtfo of here and learn to write properly you illiterate twit.
hellkitten 0
:(
darras 0
Good god you poor woman. Although I wouldn't have been so ok about him having these coffee dates. My own huband tried to have coffee dates with his ex out of guilt but after six months I had to put my foot down (she was a vindictive psycho bitch and everyone but him noticed..) and he agreed and all is well with the world again. Chuck the cheating bastard and find yourself a man who will treat you with some respect.
darras 0
#14 I never said she deserved it, because she definitely didn't. I was empathising with my own experience. Besides, I disagree, it doesn't make it sound like one doesn't trust one's partner. It is not trusting the ex that is the issue. My issue was that I didn't like my husband's ex attempting to wind me up by using my husband. I knew he'd never do anything, I just didn't want her to have the satisfaction. And indeed, now that she isn't being a psycho anymore. I have absolutely no issue with them chatting. It was unfortunate bad luck that her husband didn't deserve the trust that she put in him.
myfriend_youfail 3
I think they meant to reply to comment #9 left by mastershinigami. FML comments are getting all messed up again.
darras 0
Oh! Then I retract my defensiveness :p
perdix 31
They just go straight for the creamer.
Brave_Sir_Robin 4
You know what they say about coffee - once you go black, you don't ever go back.
perdix 31
Actually, BSR, my personal credo is: I like my women like I like my coffee: cold, bitter and barely tolerable with the addition of artificial chemicals.
Brave_Sir_Robin 4
Well put. Permission to use that credo in the future?
Brave_Sir_Robin 4
Fair enough. I won't even think about profiting on your intellect.
Residence_fml 4
Yeah you couldv'e seen that one comming. Him still going around with his ex once in a while but every week? That IS suspicious even if it wasn't his ex-girlfriend.
Bear_Cat 0
I get if you are still friends with your ex, and you want to keep touch, but WEEKLY? That's a little much.
aero_fml 0
You said that already (#10)